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You must not obey them in these regards as long as these good deeds are not preventing you from doing what they need. however you must not be disrespectful to them nor argue with them. 

I know that we are not supposed to obey parents when they call us towards sin, but what about if they stop us from performing good deeds or keep us restrained to the point that we are not able to become better and useful Muslims? Especially, because we will be questioned about our potential, but if our parents stop us then what must be done?

Fiqh of the family | April 1, 2018 5:31 pm
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sheik i hav read d hadith tht parents shld do justice wth both child. shld nt give a seperate gift to 1 child. i hav seen many ppl.like wenever they keep food they keep few extra to gents thn girls saying gents need extra power. is it valid acc to islam or strictly prohibited tht evn in food we shld keep properly to sons and daughters & evryone shd have equal amt in famly
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Sheikh,there’s grand annual dinner of myuniversity,which is not segregated and have music 2,my sister is going as she wanted but i donot want to go,my mum is forcing me to go so that my sister will not be alone cause the event will over at night so it’ll be difficult for her to travel alone @ night,how should i convience my mum and sister that i don’t want to go