I have conflicts with my mother in law. So we don’t talk to eachother on calls.But when we meet we talk nicely.Now she’s in other country &her brother died.Should i call her &console? As she didn’t called me one month ago when i gave birth.She even didn’t tell anyone that her son had another baby.This breaks my heart.I don’t want to call her but if islamically i should then i will. | Sheikh Assim Al Hakeem
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  5. I have conflicts with my mother in law. So we don’t talk to eachother on calls.But when we meet we talk nicely.Now she’s in other country &her brother died.Should i call her &console? As she didn’t called me one month ago when i gave birth.She even didn’t tell anyone that her son had another baby.This breaks my heart.I don’t want to call her but if islamically i should then i will.

I have conflicts with my mother in law. So we don’t talk to eachother on calls.But when we meet we talk nicely.Now she’s in other country &her brother died.Should i call her &console? As she didn’t called me one month ago when i gave birth.She even didn’t tell anyone that her son had another baby.This breaks my heart.I don’t want to call her but if islamically i should then i will.

01 Jan

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You treat others by your caliber and not by theirs! 

 

I have conflicts with my mother in law. So we don’t talk to eachother on calls.But when we meet we talk nicely.Now she’s in other country &her brother died.Should i call her &console? As she didn’t called me one month ago when i gave birth.She even didn’t tell anyone that her son had another baby.This breaks my heart.I don’t want to call her but if islamically i should then i will.

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