I don’t like to get close with my husband.i hate when he gets close to me.but I don’t want that to happen. I try my best but it happens.but I do full fill his desires though I don’t want.what to do sheikh .please give me some advise | Sheikh Assim Al Hakeem
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  5. I don’t like to get close with my husband.i hate when he gets close to me.but I don’t want that to happen. I try my best but it happens.but I do full fill his desires though I don’t want.what to do sheikh .please give me some advise

I don’t like to get close with my husband.i hate when he gets close to me.but I don’t want that to happen. I try my best but it happens.but I do full fill his desires though I don’t want.what to do sheikh .please give me some advise

19 Jun

ANSWER:

This is not enough! His rights over you are far greater than this and he is your gateway to paradise.

Pleasing him is part of pleasing Allah.

If you can’t be happy with him, fake it as if you are happy and pleased with him for the sake of Allah.

I don’t like to get close with my husband.i hate when he gets close to me.but I don’t want that to happen. I try my best but it happens.but I do full fill his desires though I don’t want.what to do sheikh .please give me some advise

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