ANSWER:

It’s not permissible at all for your mother to sit there as she’s a non mahram to the guy and a woman cannot be a wali!

Your brother must sit there after you get your father’s consent to do so. It is not acceptable not to have relationships with your father.

I don’t have a relationship with my father and i have no other male relatives besides my younger brother. When i am getting to know someone for marriage would it be ok with just my mum being there acting as a wali or could my younger brother be there. He is 4 years younger than me but he has passed the age of puberty.

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters, Mahram |