ANSWER:
Issues of takfeer must never be discussed by laymen and people without proper knowledge over issues of aqeedah as this would drive such a person to adopting the ideology of the Khawarij and would always be inclined to give takfeer to those who do not see eye to eye with him!
Legislating is the right of only Allah. Anyone who shares this with Him is committing kufr.
Using different calendars is not legislating. It can be sinful and it can be imitating the disbelievers or an innovation but never kufr.