ANSWER:
This is zina!
A marriage without the consent of your father and without witnesses is zina. It is totally prohibited to be in communication with him as he is a non mahram. All what he is interested in is one thing and you know that! You sounded to him as a desperate woman and an easy prey to play with and then throw like an old bone to another dog to play with.
Have some respect and dignity and don’t tarnish the reputation and name of your father and family and remember the wrath of Allah that awaits you in your grave and on the day of judgement if you don’t stop all of this filth.