The question is not complete but you must realize that this is a phase where boys usually must go through. Try to be balanced with him, give him a lot of love and compassion so that when you prevent him from something, he knows for sure that you are doing it out of love and care for him and not because you want revenge or just want to punish him for no reason. Make a lot of Duaa for him to be guided and share with him a lot of stories from the life of the Prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam and the lessons to be learnt from it.

I am a mother with three growing children would really appreciate some advise from you. I am separated with his father about 8 years ago. Alhamdulillah I had the rezq to work in jeddah and living with my three chilren here. I would like to share my situation with my youngest son who is turning to twelve in next few months. He is become angry boy, revenge and lots of feel

Pedagogy education and upbringing | November 8, 2015 4:25 am
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If I see my sister’s son insulting his mother, and I am the witness of all he did to her in the past, what should be my attitude towards him when he is unwilling to listen to my advice? Should I be normal and nice to him, as if nothing happened, when i know this attitude hurts my sister after all the insults she had to bear from her son? Or should I with my attitude let him feel that what he is doing with his mother is unacceptable?
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I am a revert and had a child before I was Muslim who’s father is Christian. I’ve tried to show him Islam and I’ve taught him as much as I can to fast and pray and the oneness of Allah ect. He is now 10 and has no interest in being a Muslim or pray. I am afraid if I don’t force him to pray I will be judged by Allah and punished by bringing him up not praying. What do I do, will I be punished