ANSWER:
It’s not about being younger than the female or not, it’s about being the mahram and the cousins are not mahrams to each other, therefore it’s not permissible for your neice to travel with your son. She must have her own male mahram to travel.
https://islamqa.info/en/answers/5538/who-are-the-mahrams-in-front-of-whom-a-woman-can-uncover