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If your relationship with him is this toxic, you may need to get your family involved in this to talk to him and solve these problems. 

A house that is filled with arguments and nagging and fights is not a good place to stay in. If there is no respect between the spouses, this is a failed marriage.

husband is stingy and always reminds me that i am ungrateful.he says he does’nt have money but he is a doctor in USA. he lies and i caught his lie. i tried reminding of religious obligations and he got angry asked me to go back. i was packing my stuff, he came for a fight.i kept quiet so he held my wrists forcefully. i retaliated by hitting after which he hit me and now im bruised. what to do.

Fiqh of Marriage | December 25, 2017 5:35 pm
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Sheikh, I signed up for a matrimonial profile on ……… and it asked me questions about my prayers and fastings, i.e. it has multiple choices to choose that you pray/fast the obligatory/voluntary prayers/fasting or not. Did I do anything wrong that I answered these questions, sheikh? (I fear it is riyaa or anything.)
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Can husbands compare their wives with their mothers & sisters (husbands) & tell their wives directly that you r not like my mother & sisters & you have to change yourself?