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We learn from our mistakes and life is all about experiences! 

When you eat a hot dish of soup for the first time, you are scalded by it! This doesn’t prevent you from eating soup over and over again but it makes you more careful!

The same goes with trusting people. You can’t trust everyone but at the same time, you shouldn’t doubt everyone or treat them in a bad way based on the fact that they might stab you like others did!

Keep you guard a bit up but learn to trust with caution! 

For my 22 years of life i trusted everyone blindly because i felt everyone wants someone to be there for them and in return i was stabbed severely. Now i can’t trust people. Even myself. My heart has solid walls around it so people now hate me. When i think i should off the guard the past savage pain warns me to not. What should i do?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners | April 12, 2018 5:02 pm
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I have started practicing Islam as much as possible left many things that is prohibited I had a male frnd ALHAMDULILLAH 2 months ago I cut all the communication with him for the sake of ALLAH I DON’T TALK TO HIM at all bt I feel sad, low, miss him although I know its haram I Recite ASTGHFAR I Feel lonely plz suggest me something and make Duaa for me
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