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It is not permissible to obey anyone at the cost of disobedience to Allah. 

However, you must handle this situation diplomatically, with respect but being firm on not compromising on the rulings of Islam.

Do we need to obey our parents if they tell us to do wrong and bad things, which is not permissible in Islam? What to do if they put more weight on us that we cant bear? Allah says to obey your parents but he also says always stand for truth. What to do in this situation?

Fiqh of the family | September 15, 2020 8:26 pm
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Sheikh My father want me to take loan and repair house and he have some debt to pay so he force me to do or else he will not talk and he will not allow anyone in family to talk me and my wife .I tried a lot to understand but he don’t and he know about riba and punishment. What should I do Sheikh?