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He has all the right given by Allah to stop his daughters from doing anything haram! 

Music is haram in islam!

She must obey him in wearing the abaya and you must support him in such a decision by explaining to her about her identity and the honor and pride of a Muslim.

Dear sheik, so my husband is trying to force my 15 yo daughter to wear an abaya when she doesn’t want to. She already wears a hijab, and is deciding to take it slow. He is also saying shit like they shouldn’t listen to music and whateve.

Fiqh of the family, Halal/Haram Matters, Women clothing | October 19, 2020 5:29 am
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