It is an issue of dispute and the most authentic opinion is that it is not permissible for women to visit the graves.

The prophet salla Allahu alahi wa sallam said “Allah has cursed women who visit graves and those who build mosques and place lights upon them.” (related by Abu Dawood, al-Tirmidhi, al-Nisaa’i and al-Haakim

Could you give me the reference of the hadith that says that the messenger of Allah cursed the women who visit graves?

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