Manners

My question is regarding those who we are supposed to keep good ties of kinship with, like our Maharams. What about those who are from the same family as you and they are not close relatives

05 Feb

If they are not your mahram, you shouldn’t contact them. However, if they are females, you should connect with them every now and then but not as frequent as your uncles, aunts and cousins. If they don’t want to contact you, call them every week or so and this should be enough.

Sheikh.there are many who steal electricty through different tehniques but if they are warned they say its a non muslim goverment so its not haraam?is it ok?and yes if they are caught they can be made to pay heavy penalty

Manners

05 Feb

This is a sin and it is not permissible. The sin is doubled because they are giving the Muslims a bad name

I always think of reading some lines from the Quran with the meaning daily and think of doing supplications and read the sunnah rakat of prayers..but i always get lazy when the time comes and never do whatever i had planned. how can i overcome this?

Manners

05 Feb

Get over your laziness. If you truly wanted to do it, you would have succeeded and Allah would have helped you.

Sheikh,i have friends who make fun of islamic rullings.when i advice them they say “its not a sin since i am only joking”.even after i advised them that joking is not an excuse they ignored me I know that the rulling is that they are kaafirs.they are the only friends i have.and if i cut out ties with them i will have no partners.what should i do?

Manners

05 Feb

……………………………………………………………………………. If they insist on making fun, you must leave them. Allah says: “If you ask them (about this), they declare: “We were only talking idly and joking.” Say: “Was it at Allah, and His Ayat (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) and His Messenger that you were mocking?” Make no excuse; you […]

Is it permissible for me to leave my drama lessons, because the reason is sometimes I have to act like women due to what my role is and I don’t find it really appropriate to be honest. I asked my teacher so I can pray but it was a lie because I only wanted to miss this lesson is this a sin?

Manners

05 Feb

……………………………………………………….. You shouldn’t take such drama lessons at all as it include lying.

The university where I am planning to study might have female teachers who wouldn’t be wearing hijab. Now, I need not look at them to listen to their lectures But the thing is when they are going to write something on the board, my gaze will inevitably fall on them while I try to see what they write on the board. Is it permissible to look at them without any desire in such a case?

Manners

05 Feb

……………………………………………………………………….. You must avoid this to the best of your ability. This is how Satan works. He tries his best to make it softer and softer in your heart until you transform totally and believe that it is permissible.

Can a muslim tell lies for the benefit of the company one doing jobs?

Manners

05 Feb

No, this is not permissible.

Is lying permissible in some cases,like a father is living with someone and the son having some financial problems,some weekends the son brings some food from outside which is not costly, for only to comfort his wife… …if he say truth to his father that food is from outside he knows that his father is angry on him that “you are wasting money” so he said to his wife that don’t say this is from outside and if she obey his husband may be Allah will not be happy with both of them.

Manners

05 Feb

…………………………………………………………………. You should use words that are not 100% lie. If your father asked directly where this food is from, you can say that it is from the kitchen or pretend that you are upset as if he is hinting that your wife didn’t cook the food.

Is it lawful to read magazines that talk about improving intimacy/physical relationship if one is married (i.e Cosmopolitan etc).

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Manners

05 Feb

If a person needs this, he may read it providing that it doesn’t have photos or haram articles.

Is the salary of a person working in police dept. of anti islamic govt. like India halal? What about a lawyer.

Manners

05 Feb

This depends on his work and activities. If he is working against Islam and Muslims, his salary is haram. As for the lawyer, if he is taking cases and applying the rule of secular states, this is forbidden as one can only rule with the Islamic law except in cases that he is defending the […]

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