Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

I am studying tafseer and recently Allah has showed me my reality.. I have serious issues of nifaq in terms of love of dunya, greed, jealousy and other evil things in my heart. I am feeling overwhelmed and discouraged not sure how to get rid of this great evil apart from dua. Please advise.

14 Sep

ANSWER: It is human nature to love worldly things. If you don’t pray on time and you indulge in sins, you are in great danger. But if you fulfill your obligations and abstain from sins, you are on the right track. Fearing hypocrisy is a sign of Iman and this is a positive sign.

How can I deal with those person who keep on insulting my physical appearance? It really hurts that nowadays mostly people will level their respect to you according how beautiful a woman is. Pls advice me because it really making me deppress

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

14 Sep

ANSWER: Allah has made everyone beautiful and physical beauty is just skin deep. It will eventually fade away as age progresses. What matters is your inner beauty and your religious commitment and your relationship with Allah. Do not pay any attention to such people as they are lame and they thrive on depressing people. If […]

I want to go good deeds in front of people in the hopes that maybe they will get inspired by me and do the same and learn from me. I want them to get inspiration from me but i don’t have any pride in my heart. Or maybe it is pride that I’m better than others? Is it wrong to especially do good deeds in front of others?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

07 Sep

ANSWER: This is something only you can answer. If you do something so that people may praise you, this is showing off which is totally prohibited. If you want others to be inspired by you, this is permissible but you must be very careful as Satan is always on our back and would make you […]

I have a new revert friend . What she is doing these days is putting up photos on instagram revealing her cleavage and hair without hijab and using hashtags like #alhamdulillah. A friend tried to explain her but she is different when she talks to us muslims and different on her social media, and she still persists on it . What should we do now ?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

04 Sep

ANSWER: You must advise her with good manners, knowledge, wisdom, and diplomacy. The best type of advice is the one that is given indirectly so you can post articles about hijab on social media so that she would see it. As the end of the day, she is a grownup person and accountable for her […]

When I remember what I did when I was a child, I feel hopeless and half dead. Too much damage has already be done. When I became a teen, I realized that doings bad things was not ok. I have been told that child will not be accountable for anything, but I still wished I have never done so much bad things. What should I do? I wish I could go to the past and change something..

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

02 Sep

ANSWER: Whatever has happened, it is in the past now. Don’t let Satan destroy your present and future by making you stuck up in the past. Repent to Allah, fulfill all your obligations and keep away from sinning to the best of your ability and expect the best from Allah and move on with your […]

I heard one hadith that if one is suffering from some illness his sins are forgiven. I am suffering from AVN avascular necrosis for last 4 years. So do I come in that category, do my sins forgiven. What are the categories of illness comes under this.

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

17 Aug

ANSWER: Yes, if you bear it with patience. “No tiredness, exhaustion, worry, grief, distress or harm befalls a believer in this world, not even a thorn that pricks him, but Allaah expiates some of his sins thereby.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5210; Muslim, 4670). https://islamqa.info/en/answers/34604/will-a-person-be-rewarded-for-any-calamity-such-as-disease-or-an-accident-that-befalls-him

I wonder why every time I go somewhere or when I go to work, I change as a person. I start to almost act like them, think like them, behave like them. My iman slowly disappears and it pains me when that happens. Is it because I live in a kafir country and work with kafirs and see them all the time almost? Please help me.

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

27 Jul

ANSWER: The environment has a great impact on a person’s behavior especially if he is not abiding by the principles of his religion and calling others to it.

I have a wealthy aunt who gives expensive gifts like gold jewellery and cellphones to my sister in presence of other siblings. While I know she can gift whatever she wants to whoever she wants, isn’t it my right that she should at least do it privately? Due to this, I sometimes become jealous and cry because my parents cannot afford presents like that for rest of us.

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

17 Jun

ANSWER: You don’t have the right to control other people. She can gift it to whoever she wants HOWEVER she wants and being jealous is sinful as you are being ungrateful of Allah’s endless favors upon you. You must repent to Allah while showing deep remorse and sincerity and ask Allah to bless her in […]

Allah has blessed me in the ways I deserve Alhamdullillah. However I dont believe this is the ultimate happiness. I prefer spending my time in ibadah reading Quran etc.. But when I do this people presume I am suffering in life or not as happy. And they are always trying to make me feel jealous by showing off about their life to a point i can’t take it anymore. I can’t even ignore them.

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

17 Apr

ANSWER: A sign of sincerity is to not care about what people say about you. The moment you pay attention and what they say and you enter in the vicious cycle of showing off, you will turn to be like them, a slave to this dunya. Ignore what they say with a big smile, do […]

What would you advise a vulnerable man with complex needs easily taken advantage of, who maybe alone in the world after his father pass’s away as he has no contact with additional family due to not knowing them or unable to find them. How does he keep safe?.

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

02 Apr

ANSWER: He must start communicating with his relatives and make a bond with other Muslims in the community by frequenting the circles of knowledge in the local masjid or authorized Islamic center.

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