Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

Feeling hatred or grudge against somebody is this makrooh? What if they are those who have wronged me? please give answer for both the cases.

02 Feb

It is makrooh and a Muslim should try to cleanse his heart. However, we are humans. Sometimes, we cant stop ourselves from holding a grudge towards someone who has wronged us. We must try our best not to fall into hatred.

Impatience is it from the shaitan? We know that one shouldn’t be impatient, but can we say this is from the shaitan

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

02 Feb

Yes, there is a hadeeth in this issue.

In our local Masjid, during khutba people give charity in charity boxes, which is passed in front of each row , is this permissible

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

02 Feb

Yes,this is permissible.

Is crying a sign of not being patient? Will reward of patience be not given?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

02 Feb

Weeping is mercy from Allah as long as it is not accompanied by complaining or by shouting.

My friend and I were joking about the teacher like we would dub his lecture (change what he says into something else), the teacher said something and my friend dubbed.. ..”I told you guys to pay the fee to the gym owner, now the body you guys made by working out is haraam”. Is this making fun of Islam because we were not mocking Islam but making fun of what the teacher said?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

02 Feb

……………………………………………………………………………………………. This is backbiting and also mocking Islam as you made a ruling that is not true.

How should we implement the hadith of the prophet peace be up on him telling us to close our windows and bring our children at home. … …In the summer it gets very hot and at maghrib time it cools down so that is the time to let some fresh air in. Can I open the windows and close the curtains or should I close the window itself? And for how long does this stay that way. Is it up to Ishaa time?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

02 Feb

……………………………………………………………………………………………….. For the children, it is up to Isha time. For closing the doors and not the windows, this is when you go to bed and this is recommended and not mandatory.

I promised one of my cousins that when he have a visa to Angola I will buy his ticket, and few days later my dad called me and told me not to help him a single cent. So what should I do? But I have already promised him, & I don’t want to deny my dad too.

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

02 Feb

If his travel there is halal and no sin involved, keep your promise.

Is it wrong to aspire to be a champion in a halal sport? Such as wrestling/running/swimming? and is it wrong to aspire to have a good job? because I was told this is just chasing the dunya.

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

02 Feb

These sports involve a lot of haram things and one should not compete in them.

I have involved in a group at my university where we have an association called “International student society ” where I mix with girls. My intention to involve here is to increase my capabilities… …in terms of speaking but I don’t shake hands with female, but some times we make joke and hang on. Is there any problem in Islamic rules & regulations with this attitude?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

02 Feb

………………………………………………………………………………………………….. This is not permissible as such open socialization is prohibited in Islam.

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