Can a girl reject a righteous boy because he is a smoker? He has no other bad habits except smoking ciggrettes about which he says that he will stop smoking after marriage.

Engagement
18 Feb

Yes, she can reject him.

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Is the Valima (as what is called in India & is given usually the next day or with a gap of 2-3 days of marriage) COMPULSORY?

Engagement
14 Feb

No, it is highly recommended

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Is this only after the CONSUMMATION or is this only a formality as an announcement of the new relation.

Engagement
14 Feb

It can take place before or after marriage.

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A sister asked me if it is permissible to ask a man to uncover his chest when he comes to ask about you for marriage???..is this allowed??… .and what sort of questions are allowed to be asked when a guy is at your house for marrigae and you want to know about him… jazakullah kairn..

Engagement
14 Feb

  This is not permissible at all and it is unacceptable by any person who has modesty. As for the questions, there are so many of them about his prayer, his reaction in cases of anger, his knowledge etc.

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A sister wants to present a muslim brother for marriage to another sister. The sister is not wearing hijab. Can she show him a picture with the sister in these condition (not having hijab)?

Engagement
14 Feb

If he is serious, the answer is yes.

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Can the engagement and the nikaah plus waleemah all be done on one shot? is it recommended or not?

Engagement
14 Feb

Yes, it can. This depends on the circumstances and the traditions. It might be better to have a month or so between the Nikah and the actual marriage so that they get to know each other more.

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Is it permissible to buy the woman cosmetics/make-up-stuff along with some clothes as a gift for engagement?

Engagement
14 Feb

Yes

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Is it permmitted for a guy to ask a girl if she is lookin to get married …or does he have to ask her father…or is it permissble for him to even talk to her?

Engagement
14 Feb

It is not permissible for a stranger to talk to a girl without any legitimate reason. Such a proposal must only be addressed to the father or to her brother. Talking directly with the girl is not permissible.

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If a man wants to see the hair of his future wife before the marriage can he do so in the presence of her mahrams?

Engagement
14 Feb

Yes, he can.

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One of my friend married 3 month ago. its heppend on with walee. after her nikah 2 days later bride groom went abroad. they didnt live together . didt take waleema. there is no relationship with them. they talk with phone her problem is now boy call her to back his place. she decided to go their alone. she asked is it allowed in islam? he decided take waleema there. even her neighbour didnt know her marriage. she asked publicity is must in islam regarding a marriage. can she live with him there.

Engagement
14 Feb

  If the marriage conditions were fulfilled, the Walima is not one of them but it is Sunnah, therefore, their marriage is correct as long as there were witnesses. Whether the Walima is done in his country or in her country, this is not an issue and all is permissible.

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