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This is transgression from your side! If he wants to be kind to his daughter, you have no right in stopping him or preventing her from accepting her father’s gifts.

Be better than him if you are earning well and buy him gifts whenever you go and visit him. This would soften his heart and make him treat you better. 

Alhamdulillah I m earning good, I do not want my father-in-law to spend his money on her daughter (my wife) in neither way by gifting her gold ornaments or in the form of dresses or money. I dislike him because of his rude behavior towards me, he do not have talking manners, is it fine if I ask him to stop OR I ask my wife not to accept any gift from him. Plz advice.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws | October 18, 2018 10:07 pm
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Mother and daughter in law living in separate cities. Mother unhappy and wants her to serve. mother tells her daughters about the problems and complains (truth/false) she has from her daughter in law. If try to turn the talk, she cries and goes into depression and becomes very angry, hyper and abnormal. Does her complains(true/false) fall under ghibah or slander? What should the daughter do then?
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She is mentally challenged and very abusive. I’ve been living with her since 6 months after my father in laws death. It’s been very tough for me and my life has been affected with the amount of verbal fighting going on 24/7. She gives us no privacy to go outside together even for 5 minutes. Can I ask my husband to move us separately in another house or is it wrong. He’s the only son she has.