Try to please your mom but don’t displease Allah as this is more important. His advice is wrong in terms of you indulging in sins in order to please her!

A Practising Muslim Therapist counselling NonMuslim mom and me, advised me privately to be less rigid/more flexible & please mom, eg go with mom to restaurants which have music/alcohol (I had tried to find halal restaurants without alcohol). Or said to tune out music or to wear brighter colour hijabs out with mom. She doesn’t want me to do haram but I want to check what I should or shouldn’t do.

Character and Morals | November 15, 2014 11:55 am
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At school, we refer to the teacher as “sir”. When I say it, I don’t mean any respect. I just say it to catch attention since it sounds a bit odd saying “Mr Fulan”. So, is it Kufr for me to say sir? I’m not saying it on account of his religion.
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Sometimes when deviant people and people who are known to be liars talk about the miracle about the Quran I have hard time believing it even if they give proof because what if they just exaggerate the ayat or just give an foreign meaning. Is this good?