Wife is “Lazy” in sleeping & waking. She is pregnant and sometimes I want her to be active & healthy only. When I say to get off the bed she refuses & when I say it is my order, she says “I am NOT obliged to obey because it is out of my capacity.” If this is correct then for which orders she has to obey? Only for those she agrees or, for those too, she disagrees. She values you Plz advise for her.