You don’t! You ask your guardian to check on him at work and where he
lives and if all reports were positive, pray istikhara and get married.

Sheikh,I know any communication of a female with na mahram is haram.So if I am looking for a match to marry,how are we supposed to understand if we are compatible.In my first marriage we hardly spoke and we were very different resulting in khula.If he visits home to see me,what after that?How do we get to know each other better in order to know if we are suitable for each other?

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