It is not your family members, so it will not be counted for you as severing the family ties, but to hate people is repulsive and should be avoided. Rather you should try, tactfully, to soften his heart and make dua to Allah for that. But if he is ordering you to sever your own relatives, parents and siblings, you must not obey him as this is a major sin.

Sheik, if the husband has problem with all family members and keeps telling me if I have to stay with him I have to hate the people he does not like as much as he does. else you can leave. My question is will I be sinning if I do what he says and severs the tie of kinship and not speak to anyone.