ANSWER: Allah does not hold you accountable for the bad thoughts that cross your mind providing you do not utter, dwell, or act upon them. You are not sinful providing you lower your gaze, do not chitchat, or free mix with her as she is still a non-mahram to you. If you are serious about marriage, […]

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ANSWER: When you weren’t practicing, you were one of Satan’s soldiers and there was no need to whisper into your head because you did everything without him asking you to.  Now, you are leaving him bit by bit and getting closer to Allah. This is why he has to intensify his whispering before he loses […]

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ANSWER: If slaughtered by a Jew or Christian, this is permissible. But if slaughtered by a muslim, he must say bismillah or his slaughtering is not valid. 

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ANSWER: In the hadeeth of Samurah ibn Jundub he said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “… we came across a man who was lying down, with another man standing over him, holding a big rock. He threw the rock at the man’s head, smashing it. The rock […]

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ANSWER: No, this is not permissible as it’s imitating the disbelievers which Prophet salla allahu alaihi wa sallam forbade.  You can give her gifts and flowers anytime during the whole year!

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ANSWER: You are in great danger and deeds are judged by their conclusion. It doesn’t matter if you had prayed regularly for 50 years. What counts is the last days of your life whether you were skipping prayers or regular. If you die right now, you will not be resurrected among those who are observing […]

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ANSWER: No problem.  However, this is not very wise as he will have to lie when at other wife’s house and lying is not permissible at all and they would go through a lot of hardship if he dies and when it comes to distribution of his inheritance when the one doesn’t know about the […]

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