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As long as you haven’t done anything wrong or disrespectful to her, her curses won’t effect you. Deal with her with respect and treat her like a doctor treats his patient. Give her dawah by only quoting the Quran and authentic hadeeth bit by bit and don’t open many fronts with her at the same time. Rather, focus on one issue at a time. 

People have different tests in this world.
Some are tested in their health. There are those who undergo dialysis ever other day. Others get the chemotherapy treatment, not knowing if they will make it or not.

There are those who face different calamities such as wars, insecurity, poverty, famine, earthquakes, volcanos etc.
I know they all wish they had your calamity.

Allah has tested you with your mother! There is nothing you can do except being dutiful, respectful and obedient. If you succeed in doing this, Allah will reward you with paradise. But if you fail, you would have failed your test from Allah.

 

My mom believes in modern islam with no prda no mahram stuff and so on. Now i have changed to salafi and am adamant to be a good muslima, but now mom not only says bad to me but also to the real actual islam. It hurts me bad when she says fabricated things about islam and her own interpretation of quran.she accuse me of following cult religion and says that she won’t let me enter janah .

Fiqh of the family | March 18, 2019 8:41 am
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My father doesn’t care about me and my siblings or our mother. He doesn’t offer salah and hasn’t read the Qur’an and doesn’t believe in these things. We are tired of his behaviour. He has destroyed our family business and has been doing self destructive things since the last few years. He doesn’t listen to anything we say. My grandmother and father’s sister have also most likely done magic on him.
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Me and my father built a house over the period of few years. My father’s contribution is maximum. However, now my wife is also planning to help us monetarily from her own money to pay off the debts we accumulated for building the house. So there is no clear bifurcation of who invested how much. How will we calculate inheritance for my sister?