This is not extreme, one should look out for religious and pious women. However, how would you know that she is like this? Will you ask her? This is not permissible at all and it is insulting to ask a woman such questions.

I want to marry a woman that never even kiss another man before, nor hold hands with anyone and of course no sex before. Some ppl say iam too extreme and unforgiven…Pls, advise me Sheik