I understand istikharah is to ask for guidance after making decision. How this relate in seeking a husband? If a widow/divorcee have a feeling/like a man ( no relationship and no contact involve). She is trying to ask for a guidance from Allah. How can she make istikharah as she doesnt have any possible decision that can be made. Her wali live far. Please advice what to do at this stage.
Sep 5th, 2015
There is no istikhara valid here. She may ask Allah to make him her husband in her sujood!