Your mother is your gateway to Paradise and Allah mandates that you be dutiful and address her in terms of honor and respect while showing her mercy! Ignore what annoys you while anticipating your reward from Allah the Almighty!
Kindly refer to the following link(s):

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BE24mHeDf3E
https://www.assimalhakeem.net/you-said-that-im-sinful-if-my-mother-sees-that-im-annoyed-by-her-rude-and-impolite-behavior-how-am-i-supposed-to-look-happy-and-smile-when-she-is-being-rude-and-impolite-to-me/
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q0mRNVDaCCY – taking care of our parents

I got the problem that I’m annoyed by things people do (especially mom) and I don’t think that’s normal. I wanna show her normal love as others do. But it’s not working. I’m praying a lot for it to go away but it’s happening the opposite (that’s what I’m feeling) please help me.. I need advice to get a normal bond with my parents.

Fiqh of the family | July 11, 2017 3:19 am
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Shaik, can a 15 year boy become a wali for his mother as there is no one left to be her wali. She is 40 years of age with 5 childrens, the elder son is of 15 and next one is 14. Can these two sons become wali of her mother?