Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: Can a girl who is a practicing Muslim marry a guy who goes to Dargah but he doesn’t mind her being a practicing Muslim?

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages

19 Jun

ANSWER: This is totally prohibited as a Muslim woman can’t marry except a Muslim man.

QUESTION: Men nowadays expect their wife to contribute financially. Nd who are eager to pay for their wives, in many cases- they humiliate their wife saying – I feed u, u r lazy, u can’t earn a penny, you sat idly at home doing nothing. Now what should I do as a young girl. How can I do a job when many job makes me compromise the Hijab and requires interaction with non-mahram men?i also cant accpet such wor

Fiqh of Marriage

19 Jun

ANSWER: You need to choose your husband carefully and make it clear to him that you are not willing to work as real men are the sole breadwinners in a Muslim house.

QUESTION: My nieces husband will not allow her to leave the house unless unaccompanied by him She is not allowed to sit in the front of the car with him She is not allowed to go outdoors with her mother or any other female relative She wears a full hijab He has said that even if she wears niqab he will not change his rule She is struggling with this and wants to know if it is permissible

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

15 Jun

ANSWER: I don’t know the full story here but I have seen many similar cases where it ended in divorce as such enslaving of the wife has dire consequences in the future but it would have been too late then. She must get him to have counseling or she is better off without such a […]

QUESTION: Sheik I am pregnant and living with my mother because I am not well but my husband doesn’t support me financially and he says that my parents should take the responsibility of first child birth expenses

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

15 Jun

ANSWER: What he is saying it an absolute lie and not related to Islam. It might be related to Hinduism! You and your child are his sole responsibility and he must provide for both of you. He can stop providing for you if you left his home without his permission.

QUESTION: If a husband is angry and saying some really bad words to his wife (not threatening to divorce her), how should a wife react? Also, this happens every time whenever the husband is angry. How should his wife calm him down?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

14 Jun

ANSWER: By not responding to his insults or defending herself at all and de-escalating things.

QUESTION: Sheikh is a man countable if he is rich and just marries 1 women will he be asked in the day of judgement why he didn’t marry second wife and didn’t help those who were widowers or divorces if he can’t be just to them interms of emotions and can only provide for them??

Fiqh of Marriage

14 Jun

ANSWER: No, he won’t be asked about that.

QUESTION: My wife who is in Pakistan tells me she does not need to obey me in stuff I don’t like , and she says she has her mum and brothers who live with her and till we don’t live together she has to do what they say. But we are newly married and I need to do paper works for her visa. The thing is her mum makes her do staff I don’t agree with. If I live in UK must she not obey me o

Fiqh of Marriage

12 Jun

ANSWER: If she did not move with you yet and you are not providing for her financially, she is not obliged to obey you as she is in her father’s house and her responsibility lies with him.

QUESTION: Shaikh i want to ask if i don’t want to get marry the person who is involved some biddah or sometime shirkiya activities so this is my extremism means i am extremist or i am right at my place because some relatives of mine said i must get marry of that person and after this i will have to insist him to leave those activities… Shaikh i am so worried as i don’t follow any biddah

Fiqh of Marriage

12 Jun

ANSWER: What your relatives are saying is not right. You must not get married to such a person as you are not a Guinea pig!

QUESTION: I don’t like my husband I don’t want to see his face or hear his voice I don’t know why is that from the first day of my marriage I didn’t let him touch me I’m sinful I know but I can’t live with that man.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

11 Jun

ANSWER: Technically, if you are unable to live with him or fulfill his rights, you can divorce him. Realistically, this is not logical! You accepted him and agreed to marry him without anyone forcing you. After all this time wasted and money lost, you simply want to divorce him and for a silly reason such […]

QUESTION: Sheikh! Is it true that I am supposed to do ANYTHING my husband ask’s me to do as long as it doesn’t go against Allah? For example one time He asked me to kneel down because I said something he found offensive to him(I said I was going to call the security on his friend who is an Artisan, who had refused to deliver or refund)

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

06 Jun

ANSWER: No, this is totally bogus and you don’t have to obey him in whatever he tells you as you are not his slave! He has no right to ask you yo kneel down like this! Such oppressive husbands must be stopped before they take this as norm and would make their wives’ life a […]

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