Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: There is a marriage proposal for me. He is a good guy, a practicing Muslim, and has good knowledge about Dee. The problem is, our parents want videography for our wedding, but I don’t. Even though the guy knows about it, he didn’t take any step. He said, “I don’t know anything. It’s all up to my family. Whatever they want to do, they will.” What should I do?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage

16 Oct

ANSWER: You must put your foot down and do not agree to this. If he is as practicing as you say, he should man up and talk to his parents rather than being a mommas boy! Such a negative attitude about what is halal and haram should give you a preview of how life would […]

QUESTION: I read from an islamic page about polygamy. from the perspective that the Lawgiver has enjoined it, then what we must do is be content and happy with it. I don’t want my husband to marry second time and make dua for it just it’s my desire or wish I am not stopping him physically this implies I am not content and happy with polygamy Or not?

Fiqh of Marriage

06 Oct

ANSWER: This feeling is natural and you’re not denying a ruling in islam so there’s no problem in that nor in making duaa.

QUESTION: Due to misunderstandings, my husband accused me for infidelity without solid evidence of me having an affair. He insulted me openly. Still to save my marriage, me and my parents asked for forgiveness. I offered to agree to all his conditions as i was loyal yet he wants to divorce me without hearing any explanation. He didnt talk to me in private. He only talks with his mother. What should I do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

05 Oct

ANSWER: This is your choice If you wish to remain a doormat for the rest of your life, you can keep on trying

QUESTION: I married 25 yrs ago & left my wife with my joint family to work abroad. Within a month she accused my younger bro of se* harassment n I enquired, but my family (incl parents) denied it. She sought khula & I agreed. Now, 25 yrs later, my sis revealed the allegation was true & everyone knew abt it but fam members lied to me. Now how shld I deal with them, incl parents?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

01 Oct

ANSWER: Deal with them normally as no one put a gun to your head to believe them over your wife. This was your doing and now you must live with it!

QUESTION: If a person finds out that his wife cheated on him or vice versa and out of rage, attempts to kill her or kills her, then will that person be sinful? If yes, then how much sinful will he be? And what if the husband does this to his wife after he sees that he can’t file any charge against her as in some Muslim countries, adultery isn’t a crime ?

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters

30 Sep

ANSWER: No matter what the reasons are, he is a murderer and must be killed for his crime. If she committed adultery, this is a major sin and she will be held accountable for it. He can leave her and divorce her and move on with his life. Killing her makes him a criminal and […]

QUESTION: My husband is addicted to drugs and don’t offer prayer. I tried everything to stop him. But he earns halal and take care of my kids. Am I sinful living with him? What should I do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages

28 Sep

ANSWER: If he doesn’t offer prayers, not even a single prayer then its not permissible for you to continue this marriage! Involve your parents and his and give him the warning, if he still doesn’t pray then you must leave him.

QUESTION: If someone broke contact with a girl because it was haram and now he wants to ask her hand. What is he supposed to say when his parents or the wali of the girl asks him from where he knows this girl? Because it is haram to share old sins and says that he talked to her and that he knows her.

Character and Morals, Fiqh of Marriage, Sins

25 Sep

ANSWER: He must not expose his sins and can be diplomatic by saying something like he knows of her from someone who doesn’t want to be disclosed

QUESTION: Sheikh,one of my friend told he’s married. We’re the student of undergraduation. But his parents don’t know about their marriage but the parents of the girl knew partially about the marriage. Now is that marriage haalal or haram?

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages

22 Sep

ANSWER: This is something the man and his wife should be asking about and not you as this is none of your business and you should keep your nose out of other people’s affairs. If the woman’s father did not give her away in marriage, the marriage is invalid.

QUESTION: I recently got divorced and i miss my wife. Even though she was dishonest, not loyal and not sincere. How to get over her ?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of Marriage

20 Sep

ANSWER: By becoming a real man and having some dignity and honor!

QUESTION: I previously asked if a wife can do only basic house duties, and you responded that if the husband is okay with it and they can hire a maid then its fine. but, does the wife have to pay for the maid? The wife doesn’t have the funds, and the husband is willing to cover the cost.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

16 Sep

ANSWER: No problem in husband paying for the maid at all!

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