Fiqh of Marriage

Is it compulsory for a wife to obey each and every order of her husband? Because my husband wants me to listen to every single thing and says that it is compulsory or I will be sinful

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

22 Mar

ANSWER: A wife is not a slave! She is not obliged to obey the husband in everything he tells her unless it is related to his rights as a husband such as in the way she looks etc. If he tells her to stand and not to sit, she is not obliged to obey him!

Sheikh i love a non muslim girl but i have not been in a relationship with her i want a halal marriage can i pray to Allah bless to accept islam and ask her hand for marriage?

Fiqh of Marriage

21 Mar

ANSWER: No problem in making dua without having any contact with her. However, you would want to marry a woman who would be an ideal mother of your children who would raise them on islam and not someone who may reject Islam and run away with your children and make them follow her religion!

Are we allowed to marry Christians and try to convert them afterwards?

Fiqh of Marriage, Religions

21 Mar

ANSWER: Marrying a chaste Christian woman is permissible but it is not advisable. If they choose to convert by themselves and out of their own will, this is fine but one can’t guarantee that this would happen or that she won’t negatively impact the children to be christians!

A man who, whenever he ask wife for sex but accepts it if she asks to wait for another time, out of desire to not cause discomfort for her, & only has sex if she’s ‘in the mood’. From Islam’s perspective, do we praise this man for being considerate to wife’s feeling or do we say he should not do this as it may give bad encouragement to wife (eg it may end up that she keeps doing this)?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

13 Mar

ANSWER: He is rewarded for being considerate providing this doesn’t harm him.

I wanna marry someone but as per my knowledge he is engaged in some prohibited things . He Don’t wanna marry me as he can’t talk to his family members and I’m thinking that I should pray for him that Allah changes him and open door of marriage for me with him. I am not in contact with him now. I really wanna marry him. Am I doing right if not then what should I do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

10 Mar

ANSWER: No, you are not doing the right thing at all! You are not a doormat and he is not the last man on earth! Someone who is sinful and proud of it and he doesn’t have the courage to speak to his parents and he is not man enough to marry you, who would […]

When two potentials want to get to know each other for marriage purposes, when they are in the group chat with Wali and them two. Does the wali always have to be online at the same time as the two potentials and read the messages then and there or can the two potentials talk to each other on that chat and the wali sees all the messages later?

Fiqh of Marriage

01 Mar

ANSWER: This is not permissible. There’s only one initial meeting allowed between the potential suitor and the girl in her mahram’s presence.

Can someone do Nikah when they are on periods?

Fiqh of Marriage, Marriage Contract

27 Feb

ANSWER: No problem. Intercourse is what is prohibited.

Mybrother like girl our parents wentbuther father denied, the girl says to my brother thather parents are abusive and she wantsto runaway with mybrother, he wants to saveher fromher abusive parents, my parents tried to convince him but he said he loves and can’t leave her there while the runaway idea was suggested by her now if my brother runsaway with her doingnikkah me and parents are sinful?

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

26 Feb

ANSWER: The prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam said that any marriage without the consent of her father is void! If her father is abusive as she claims, she must go to the muslim ruler or muslim judge or the authorized Imam of the Islamic center and he would look into her case and check […]

Iam pregnant &already have 2 girls alhumdulilah.My husband now a days kind of threateneds me that if I don’t give him a boy he would marry someone else.I know it’s halal to have 4 wives but I just wanna know on this reason that a women cannot give birth to a boy he can marry another women?I always say him it’s not in my hands to make a boy or girl,also I make plenty of dua for boy.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses, Pedagogy education and upbringing

20 Feb

ANSWER: He is an ignorant imbecile. It is in Allah’s hands who gets girls and who gets boys. Scientists have also concluded that it is the sperm of the man that is responsible of that and not the woman’s. It is his right to take a second wife and i know tens of men who […]

Sheikh my wife cut her hair without asking me … She knows that I don’t like her getting haircut. I don’t like it and when I asked her she lied that she has not cut whereas I am sure as I saw the hair in bin..I didn’t like it and I am not talking to her and not getting physical to make her feel ..but i am fulfilling my all responsibilities for her .. am I wrong?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

18 Feb

ANSWER: You are doing all of this over such a trivial issue? What kind of a husband are you? It is wrong from her side to cut her hair agains your wish but it seems that you have a problem! It seems that the hair you saw was not so much as you couldn’t tell […]

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