Fiqh of Marriage

ANSWER: Of course not! Marriage in Islam has conditions and pillars such as the proposal and acceptance and the presence of the guardian of the woman and his approval.

QUESTION: My husband said me during an argument ” dump all your prayers including tahajjud and all azkars in the trash. If you don’t hear me then you won’t enter Jannah”. Also, he had said “You will enter Jannah only if you hear me” Does these words that insults namaz etc breaks ones Iman? If not, is my Nikah valid with that person.

Apostasy, Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages

10 Feb

ANSWER: If he meant it and ridiculed prayer and athkar like this, this is kufr You must investigate what he meant by it and threaten him to file for divorce if he ever says anything like this again as you can’t stay with a non Muslim! This might wake him up and get him out […]

QUESTION: I am having my nikah in May or June and my parents are saying that we will delay the bidai for a year or more than that. Am I allowed to stay with my parents for more than 6 months after nikah?

Fiqh of Marriage

08 Feb

ANSWER: This is not recommended, however it’s permissible according to the agreement between your father and husband

QUESTION: My parents are looking for marriage proposals for me, but I am not ready to get married. As a 22-year-old female, I do not feel mentally prepared, and I believe I haven’t accomplished enough in my life yet. I have started hifz classes and am making other positive changes. Is it wrong to ask my parents to pause the marriage process because I am not mentally ready?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of Marriage

07 Feb

ANSWER: If you’re not mentally stable as you say, you should not be married yet. However, good proposals usually come once in a life time! There is far grater supply than there is demand. Many girls around you are looking for good proposals and can’t find any. Every day that goes by reduces your chances […]

QUESTION: During the nikah, does the girl need to be physically present? Or can it be done with her consent and her father’s consent?

Fiqh of Marriage, Marriage Contract

23 Jan

ANSWER: She doesn’t have to present as long as she has given her consent and her guardian approves of it and gives the proposal to the boy in the presence of two male witnesses.

QUESTION: My husband is asking me to help financially, I’m very busy with household chores, teaching my son as we didn’td enroll him in school yet, I have a baby of 2 years old, and we do hifz, all these things take up lot of time, but still my husband is expecting me to take tuitions and help him in houshold expenditure, please advice what should I do and what salad use to do after migration.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

22 Jan

ANSWER: He has no right, none whatsoever in asking you to contribute in the expenditure of the house! Allah has given the sole responsibility to the man of maintaining the financial aspects!

QUESTION: To follow up my previous question, my father passed away 2 years ago, dividing his property between me and my siblings. My husband calculated my share under Sharia law and felt I got less. My mother and siblings insist it’s correct and refused to give more. Upset, my husband became estranged from them and forbids me from meeting them. What should I do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Inheritance

18 Jan

ANSWER: He has no right in getting upset, none whatsoever! This is something between you & your family, he has no say in this! As I mentioned before, no husband would do such a thing and behave in such a fashion unless he has an eye on his wife’s wealth. His wife is usually following […]

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