Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: If a man gets 2 proposals and both of these proposals according to islam. Both girls are equally islamic but 1 is wealthy and the other is not so wealthy. So if the man chooses that girl which is wealthier than the other girl, is it sinful or allowed?

Fiqh of Marriage

15 Jan

ANSWER: If he intends to utilize her wealth to his advantage, such a person is not a real man!

QUESTION: In India,muslims have adopted many hindu cultures like,demanding huge amount of dowry from girl’s father,doing unislamic marriage rituals like lots of non-mahrams coming to see&check the girl, baraat,free mixing and so on plus most of the people in our country have wrong aqeedah.In such a scenario what should the girl do – should she accept or reject the marriage?

Fiqh of Marriage

13 Jan

ANSWER: You must be firm & not accept any such rituals in your wedding and make a lot of dua to Allah to facilitate for you to get a practicing spouse with correct aqeedah.

QUESTION: I wear niqab with gloves n believe these are obligatory. is it permissible to marry a man who takes from trustworthy scholars bin baz, ibn uthaymeen, al albani etc. but doesn’t believe that niqab and gloves are obligatory? what if i have a daughter in the future (i want her to wear niqab of course)?

Fiqh of Marriage, Women clothing

09 Jan

ANSWER: No problem in marrying him providing he does not force you to take it off! Once you get a daughter and she reaches the age of niqab, you by then should have been able to change his mind with love and care.

QUESTION: I have repented sincerely for the sin adultery and my husband said he forgave me and we started living peacefully. But sometimes he keeps on bringing up it while I’m trying to forget that incident. Is he sinful for this?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

08 Jan

ANSWER: Yes, he is sinful.

QUESTION: If a couple decides to get married in Madinah and then plans to perform Umrah, are they allowed to perform the act of marriage before the starting the Umrah?

Fiqh of Marriage, Hajj and Umrah

06 Jan

ANSWER: As they are not in the state of Ihram, there is no problem in consummating the marriage or conducting the marriage contract.

QUESTION: Me and my husband will get a divorce soon. I had to explain to my family the reasons. And one of the reasons was my husband’s pornography consumption. He is now cursing me for revealing it to them. I had to reveal it as i didn’t have any choices. Is it a sin ? Does his curses could be answered by Allah ?

Divorce, Fiqh of Marriage

04 Jan

ANSWER: Of course you are sinful! No one forced you to expose such a sin that was between him and Allah. Your family had no right to demand to know!

QUESTION: Me and my wife are due to move into our new house soon. My wife has a money saved and we agreed to use that money for refurbishment before moving in. However, my wifes parents are about to buy a new house and have asked my wife for her savings (as a loan). I told her not to. As we need it. Does she need to listen to me?

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters, Kind Treatment of Spouses

03 Jan

ANSWER: Absolutely not! Her money is hers only and she is not obliged to give you a penny of it. It is a man’s job to provide for his wife, NOT the other way around.

QUESTION: Living in a Hanafi-majority country, finding a suitor from Ahl e Sunnah wal Jama’ah is challenging. I may encounter pious Hanafi women who don’t share the same aqidah. Should I focus solely on searching for women with correct aqidah, or is it permissible to consider these pious Hanafi women for marriage?

Fiqh of Marriage

28 Dec

ANSWER: No real Muslim would compromise issues of aqeedah in his future mother of his children!

QUESTION: My husband doesn’t like it when my parents gifts me something(no occasions). What should I do? Should I accept the gift or ask my parents not to give me anything?

Fiqh of Marriage

20 Dec

ANSWER: You can accept their gifts & not tell your husband about it.

QUESTION: My husband doesn’t like me to call my sisters or them to call me. He is saying they are no longer my siblings and his siblings are now my relatives. He is telling me once in every week go to his parents to stay. I do not like this. Am i sinful if i refuse to go to my inlaws every week?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage

19 Dec

ANSWER: No, you’re not sinful for not wanting to go! He’s totally wrong in demanding this from you as they’re not your relatives (kinship)! Your own siblings are your siblings for life and nothing can change this and his siblings or parents can’t be compared to yours!

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