Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: If you have given anything to your wife then it is important for husband to give the same to his sister..anything What are the rights of sister on brother… and they have equal rights as his wife?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

29 May

ANSWER: This is totally baseless and not found in Islam

QUESTION: I did arrange marriage. My wife’s parents were very clear about her dark complexion and average looks. I and my parents assured them we had no issue. She is very pious, good character goes above and beyond to keep me happy.also she was clear she didn’t want to go ahead if I was interested in polygamy. She is a nice girl. Now I don’t feel attracted for her looks. Should i divorce her ?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

27 May

ANSWER: A real man doesn’t act like this! You went into the marriage knowing what you were doing and choosing despite all the warnings you were given as if they had a bad feeling about you! No one forced you to marry her. Now, if you want to destroy her life by divorcing her, this […]

QUESTION: I am getting married soon and my parents want to gift some gold ornaments to me for my wedding. They have done this as per their own will and I didn’t force them to get me anything. But my fiance doesn’t want me to take anything from them. Can I still go ahead and accept this gift from my parents or do I listen to my fiance?

Engagement, Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

25 May

ANSWER: You are not allowed to speak to him as he is a non mahram to you still as the marriage contact is not finalized. He has no right as a fiancé or a husband even to prevent you from accepting gifts from your parents. This raises red flags about how he thinks or how […]

QUESTION: I am 21 years old and I’m looking for early marriage. However I’m still a university student, do you still recommend early marriage for this case and if yes. How can I convince my parents to get me married at a young age, knowing that I don’t work yet.

Fiqh of Marriage

25 May

ANSWER: If you are financially independent, you don’t need your parents’ permission . But if you are not, then you need to convince them if they are well off that this is important for you as there is so much fitnah outside and you don’t know if you would be able to hold on.

QUESTION: Im not interacting with any female because i want to be pure and untouched for her (my future wife), if she has had some past experiences with a male and I get to know it after my death is there anyway I can divorce her on the day of judgement or in heaven (if I am allowed in heaven). And if i want to see her suffer in the afterlife how do I?

Fiqh of Marriage, Other, Paradise and Hell

22 May

ANSWER: No, you can’t! This is childish of you to think like this as Allah forgives people’s mistakes as if they had done none and on the day of judgement, all grudges and enmity will be erased and removed from people’s hearts.

QUESTION: I have feelings for a guy who doesn’t reciprocate, we dated Back then, but now we aren’t together and now My parents arranged a proposal with someone I’m not interested in. I’ve been praying to Allah since 2 years now, to bring the guy I like into my life with love and in my naseeb. Should I wait, give up, Or keep praying? As it is said DUA CAN CHANGE THE NASEEB.

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

20 May

ANSWER: You must move on with your life and not allow yourself to be treated as a doormat unless you are one! Someone who is not interested in you and had moved on with his life, you should have the self respect and forget all about him and ask Allah for forgiveness over what you […]

QUESTION: How can a woman save herself from her abusive husband?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

15 May

ANSWER: Avoid the reasons that make him abusive or try to communicate and reason with him. If these don’t work, let her involve the men in her family who could intimidate him as men, and if this doesn’t work, she can file for khulu and ditch him as he is not a real man to […]

QUESTION: Is ORAL SEX allowed in Islam?

Character and Morals, Fiqh of Marriage

15 May

ANSWER: This is not recommended as it is touching the place of impurity with the mouth or tongue which pronounces the shahada and recites the Quran.

QUESTION: My mother started wearing an abaya starting last year and my father doesnt like it. At first he just used to convince her to not wear it but now he gets really angry. Mother’s really worried about what she should do, she knows that she cant disobey Allah but she cant ignore Father either. Please advise what to do.

Fiqh of Marriage, Women clothing

14 May

ANSWER: She has the choice of either obeying Allah or obeying satan!

QUESTION: My husband wants to bring his brother from overseas to live in our house where we live with our children, which means that when my husband goes to work I will end up at home alone with my children and his brother. Please advise.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage

07 May

ANSWER: This is not permissible and you must not agree to that. He can arrange for his brother to live somewhere else!

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