Fiqh of the family

If my father and my husband have different opinions and they give me different suggestions in a situation, whome should I obey? Who has more rights over me?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

21 Jan

ANSWER: This is too generic. If it is something not related to any of them, it is your preference to choose what you want as if it is related to how to fix your car! But if it is related to something that relates to your husband’s rights such as how to wear your hair […]

We r 2 sis n no bros.We have 1 home,now my father is gifting us the house totally.Like in papers,it will be written “this house belongs to me n my sis equally.Is it ok?He is not doing a will like after his death we will get it rather than that he is gifting us

Fiqh of the family, Inheritance

21 Jan

ANSWER: No problem in this as long as it’s done officially and the house would actually belong to you both (not just on paper) and he would have no right on it.

If i become a daee & preach islam, will my parents get reward for it, even if they are against it? I want to persuade them to let me be a daee, so i need to tell them the rewards they may get

Fiqh of the family, Knowledge & Propagation

16 Jan

ANSWER: No, they won’t get the reward if they’re against it.

Shaikh my parents are disregarding the marriage proposal I like by saying that it will ruin my future generations if I marry a girl who was adopted, please tell me if this is a shariah reason to deny a proposal and how to convince my parents? The girl is practicing and have a good character.

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

10 Jan

ANSWER: No, this is not a reason at all to reject a proposal. If she’s a practicing Muslimah with correct aqeedah then you can go ahead and marry her even without your parents approval as a man does not require anyone’s permission to get married except the consent of the girl’s guardian!

Sheikh, my parents backbites about others 24/7.. Its difficult for me to defending others or to convince my parents not to do it. And my relation with my parents become worse for stay away from them for their backbiting.What should I do now? As hearing them, I m also become sinful.

Backbiting, Fiqh of the family

09 Jan

ANSWER: You need to be diplomatic and smart while dealing with them. Try to change the topic or leave to get some water when they start backbiting so that you won’t be there with them.

We gt an invitation of 31st night and Birthday party.My family is gonna go and join.there’s no such prblem so it may get canceled(at least there might be 1 we’re gnna join). I’m 14 yrs old girl. If evry1 goes I can’t stay at home and say them No. N as I’m a kid, I’m gonna be put in the 1st to cut the cake in the bd celebration.I hv to go with them.Now what Can/should I do? Pray fr me..

Fiqh of the family, Halal/Haram Matters

01 Jan

ANSWER: Politely tell your parents that you cannot do this as it would be collaborating and facilitating in sin.

Sheikh My question is regarding my mother, There are times when she gets difficult, she talks about certain family topic thathas no relation to the present she keeps repeating them it is effecting her mentally. I have listened to her stories but i cannot anymore. I have no ways of solving her problems i dont want to be disobidient what can i do ?

Character and Morals, Fiqh of the family, Halal/Haram Matters

27 Dec

ANSWER: When you were a child, she used to listen to you repeat the same words hundreds of times trying to learn them and to talk, and she had never complained about it. She is your test from Allah and it seems that you are about to fail that test! Sheikh whenever my mother gets […]

Shaikh in India people don’t behave equally with their daughter and son.. Sons are treated as more superior leftover food should be eaten by only womens in the house.. No one care for a, women she just need to work even if she is tired.. And their is lot of injustice between son and daughter.. Is this right shaikh.. Please explain.. What i as a daughter should make myself

Fiqh of the family

21 Dec

ANSWER: This has nothing to do with Islam and this is most likely a cultural thing taken from the Hindus. Nevertheless, a girl should acknowledge that the role of a man is to be the breadwinner while the woman is destined to take care of her husband and children. This is why in most cultures, […]

My son’s exam is going.All his friends copy from each others and get good grades while he refuses to do that and says it’s cheating.Isnt this too extreme?Doesnt he need good grades to get a good life?And what if he fails?Give an advice for him.

Fiqh of the family, Halal/Haram Matters

13 Dec

ANSWER: Of course this is cheating and prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam said that a person who cheats is not from among us! This is not extreme at all, your son is on the correct track, do not lead him astray by discouraging him from following the correct path!

My dad has 3 children, 1 daug. & 2 sons. 10yrs back he had given 240gm of GOLD as gift to my sis during her wedding but he didnt give d same gift to his sons.Today we’re dividing property & my dad is ALSO not ready to deduct that amt. of gold (240g) which he had given as a gift to my sis from her share. According to Sahih Muslim:1624 Is he sinful for not equally sharing gifts among his children?

Fiqh of the family, Inheritance

14 Nov

ANSWER: I am shocked of how you are holding your father accountable like this as if you are his partners and not his son! Instead of putting an eye on his wealth and anticipating the moment he dies to inherit him, you should be asking him to sit back and relax while you work and […]

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