Fiqh of the family

I’ve just completed my graduation.my father watches pornography.I’m.really angry with him.I’m really under deep depression.What can i do ?? Advice me and keep me in your prayer. My father only listen to whom who has money.I want to leave my house forever.I will tear up my certificate and I’ll live by driving rickshaw.

Fiqh of the family, Psychological Problems

30 May

ANSWER: He is your father and he is your gateway to paradise. He is a grownup man and he is answerable to Allah. It is none of your business what he does in his personal life. Focus on your career and on trying to get married. Tearing up your certificate and driving a rickshaw is […]

I did a lot for my elder brother with his education, job, financial support and giving advise during difficult times. He is very ungrateful and self-centered. He comments negative things about me after I had done so much for him. I really want to cut off the relationship with him as it is affecting my mental health. Is it permissible?

Fiqh of the family

30 May

ANSWER: If you did all of that for the sake of Allah, you will lose all your reward by cutting him off. You should deal with others according to your own class and not according to their class! If he is scum, you shouldn’t go down to his level! Simply smile to his arrogance and […]

If a father is never happy with his family and kids the father always lies and backbite about them to their relatives and doesn’t give their haq properly so I heard jannah’s one door will remains close if one of the parents are unhappy with their kids? So what can I do when this father is never satisfied.

Fiqh of the family

29 May

ANSWER: As long as you are fulfilling your duties towards him and you are respectful and obedient within reason, you will enter paradise in Sha Allah even if your father is not unjustly satisfied.

Am I sinful if my parents watch TV and listen to radio where there are music and I don’t pay attention to it and I don’t watch TV. If yes what should I do ?

Fiqh of the family, Knowledge & Propagation

28 May

ANSWER: You are not sinful for their sins if you are not sharing it with them. However, you must advise them and remind them of Allah.

Husband and his siblings share everythin with each other,even the wrongs of their wives,his sister acts like she is their mother advising them about the wrongs of their wives etc, its like they want 2 share every details,husband can’t live without their advices,heard him telling his brothers the wrongs of their wives openly,calling everyday 2 one another constantly, gives me anxiety how 2 deal?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family, Kind Treatment of Spouses

27 May

ANSWER: Her husband is sinful for backbiting his wife and she must advise him to act like a man and stop backbiting her in front of others. She must be tactful in her approach and become the one he seeks his tranquility in, in order to put a stop to this.

What if my abusive parents are destroying my mental health? What if i am going into depression by holding it all in? By doing sabr, by crying on a prayer mat, what if still it’s not working? Can moving out be an option? Will our pain be ignored by Allah if we stand up for ourselves instead of doing sabr?

Fiqh of the family

18 May

ANSWER: A woman can’t move out from her parents house unless she gets married or there is a real need for that which is determined only after studying her case individually.

When a person was undutiful to his father out of complete ignorance, how can she be forgiven by Allah now that she had repented and turned back to Allah? Her father had passed away so there is no way to ask for his forgiveness. How can she be dutiful to him while he’s dead? Will Allah punish her for the sins she committed out of ignorance?

Fiqh of the family

13 May

ANSWER: Have the best hope in Allah as Allah is as His servant thinks of Him. Make a lot of dua for him besides sincerely repenting to Allah.

If our old parents are wrong somewhere..so can we shout on them beacuse they r not listening to us (they r not doing anything haram)or we should stay quiet

Fiqh of the family, Halal/Haram Matters

07 May

ANSWER: You can do this if you want to end up in hell! This is totally prohibited and one of the major sins in Islam and Allah won’t forgive you unless your parents forgive you!

My father has not been talking to his brother since about 19 years, and we don’t have his number as well… I’m 20 now. I have not met or spoken to my paternal uncle since then. He lives in a foreign Country. How should I maintain my ties with my paternal uncle in such a case? How should I start it? I have never spoken to him but I fear Allah

Character and Morals, Fiqh of the family

05 Apr

ANSWER: Try to get his number and call him and introduce yourself to him

I liked a girl and approached to her parents. They accepted me and ready to give her daughter in my nikah. I’m a daee and they liked my religious attitude. My parents delaying the marriage because i habe 2 elder sister and they are unmarried. What should i do? Wait or ge5 married before my sisters.

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

28 Mar

ANSWER: No need to wait for them to get married. If you are financially independent, go ahead and get married with or without your parents.

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