Fiqh of the family

If a father is never happy with his family and kids the father always lies and backbite about them to their relatives and doesn’t give their haq properly so I heard jannah’s one door will remains close if one of the parents are unhappy with their kids? So what can I do when this father is never satisfied.

Fiqh of the family

29 May

ANSWER: As long as you are fulfilling your duties towards him and you are respectful and obedient within reason, you will enter paradise in Sha Allah even if your father is not unjustly satisfied.

Am I sinful if my parents watch TV and listen to radio where there are music and I don’t pay attention to it and I don’t watch TV. If yes what should I do ?

Fiqh of the family, Knowledge & Propagation

28 May

ANSWER: You are not sinful for their sins if you are not sharing it with them. However, you must advise them and remind them of Allah.

Husband and his siblings share everythin with each other,even the wrongs of their wives,his sister acts like she is their mother advising them about the wrongs of their wives etc, its like they want 2 share every details,husband can’t live without their advices,heard him telling his brothers the wrongs of their wives openly,calling everyday 2 one another constantly, gives me anxiety how 2 deal?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family, Kind Treatment of Spouses

27 May

ANSWER: Her husband is sinful for backbiting his wife and she must advise him to act like a man and stop backbiting her in front of others. She must be tactful in her approach and become the one he seeks his tranquility in, in order to put a stop to this.

What if my abusive parents are destroying my mental health? What if i am going into depression by holding it all in? By doing sabr, by crying on a prayer mat, what if still it’s not working? Can moving out be an option? Will our pain be ignored by Allah if we stand up for ourselves instead of doing sabr?

Fiqh of the family

18 May

ANSWER: A woman can’t move out from her parents house unless she gets married or there is a real need for that which is determined only after studying her case individually.

When a person was undutiful to his father out of complete ignorance, how can she be forgiven by Allah now that she had repented and turned back to Allah? Her father had passed away so there is no way to ask for his forgiveness. How can she be dutiful to him while he’s dead? Will Allah punish her for the sins she committed out of ignorance?

Fiqh of the family

13 May

ANSWER: Have the best hope in Allah as Allah is as His servant thinks of Him. Make a lot of dua for him besides sincerely repenting to Allah.

If our old parents are wrong somewhere..so can we shout on them beacuse they r not listening to us (they r not doing anything haram)or we should stay quiet

Fiqh of the family, Halal/Haram Matters

07 May

ANSWER: You can do this if you want to end up in hell! This is totally prohibited and one of the major sins in Islam and Allah won’t forgive you unless your parents forgive you!

My father has not been talking to his brother since about 19 years, and we don’t have his number as well… I’m 20 now. I have not met or spoken to my paternal uncle since then. He lives in a foreign Country. How should I maintain my ties with my paternal uncle in such a case? How should I start it? I have never spoken to him but I fear Allah

Character and Morals, Fiqh of the family

05 Apr

ANSWER: Try to get his number and call him and introduce yourself to him

I liked a girl and approached to her parents. They accepted me and ready to give her daughter in my nikah. I’m a daee and they liked my religious attitude. My parents delaying the marriage because i habe 2 elder sister and they are unmarried. What should i do? Wait or ge5 married before my sisters.

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

28 Mar

ANSWER: No need to wait for them to get married. If you are financially independent, go ahead and get married with or without your parents.

I’m so much worried about my marriage. My father-in-law is step father to my husband and he keeps on controlling our marriage. I was silent till the moment. Now, I want to do a job and my husband has no issue about it. He allows me but my FIL refrains me from doing this job. It is a teaching job with good incentives. Kindly guide me shaikh what to do in this scenario

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of the family, Mahram

28 Mar

ANSWER: This man is not related to you and he is a non mahram to you and you must not mix or communicate with him. Stop all communications with him. Only your husband’s real father is your mahram. This man has no authority over you or your husband. If your husband is fine with your […]

Shaikh I’m living in india, and my mom force me to live with joined family, and I have a my brother at home, i tell my mother that it’s not permesible, for my wife to live in a same house, with her brother in law , but she starts crying. And forcing me to live with her, what can I do.

Fiqh of the family, Kind Treatment of Spouses

28 Mar

ANSWER: Get a separate home, furnish it and get it ready for you to move into it. Once it is ready, tell your mother and move out and apologize for her that you had already paid the rent of one year.

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