Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: My husband cheated on me with multiple people. Some men. I asked what I did wrong to cause this so that I can make corrections. He said it was not me. I want to be a good wife but I feel anger many times and I am now in suffering insomnia at night from my inability to stop thinking of it. What should I do to stop this thinking?

Fiqh of Marriage

20 Dec

ANSWER: If he has stoped cheating on you and now he is faithful, you should stop thinking about the past and move on with your life, trying to be a good wife and praying to Allah that He makes your marriage a blessed and happy one. But if he is still cheating on you and […]

QUESTION: What can you do, when they got u married to a man u don’t love but u ignored it since u can’t do anything about it and thinking that for a mean time, u may love him but u tried all means u couldn’t love him, you feel hurt when he is talking to u even his words are not hurtful, an he is very good man he loves me so much, and i don’t want to hurt him. since u got married he didn’t come. Please

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

10 Dec

ANSWER: Technically, if you are unable to love him or fulfill his rights, you can divorce him. Realistically, this is not logical! You accepted him and agreed to marry him without anyone forcing you. After all this time wasted and money lost, you simply want to divorce him and for a silly reason such as […]

QUESTION: There is a hadeeth which says Allah does not accept prayer of woman whose husband is angry with her. Angry for any reason? Or is it only for rejecting request to hve intercourse?

Fiqh of Marriage

19 Oct

ANSWER: Angry due to a legitimate reason and due to the transgression of the wife

QUESTION: A girl committed sins like haram relationship and zina ( one time) but she realised and repenting for her sins. But don’t want to get married now because she think she is impure is it true that she is not capable of marrying to anyone and how to repent

Fiqh of Marriage, Sins

18 Oct

ANSWER: As long as she has sincerely repented to Allah while showing deep remorse, Allah will forgive her and she can marry any practicing Muslim. She must not reveal her sin in front of ANYBODY.

QUESTION: Shiekh, My husband came to US two years ago. He is working, but still struggling to meet our needs. I work and take care of my own needs.Each month he sends money to his family back home even he doesn’t have enough to send.He doesn’t give me any allowance. Even if I am working and contributing to home more than him, shouldn’t he give me something for my allowance as a husband?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

16 Oct

ANSWER: If he doesn’t earn enough and you are working, why would you burden him by asking him to give you something? He is poor and unable to make ends meet! You want him to stop sending any money to his parents and family and give you an allowance while he sees you working and […]

QUESTION: I understand husband is superior to a wife and deserves alot of respect. However, husband acts in a way that upset the wife, would she be sinful for getting angry?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

15 Oct

ANSWER: She is a human being and has all the right to be angry. However, what makes her sinful is not her anger but rather what she does as a result of such anger.

QUESTION: I do not have any job , my husband hardly provides anything for me financially that’s why I cannot do a lot of things I cannot ask even for my essential things from him, even if I ask him to bring something he hardly brings it, as he does not provide me anything financially am I sinful for stealing money from his wallet or drawer in dire need?

Fiqh of Marriage

14 Oct

ANSWER: You may take only what is needed for your basic needs.

QUESTION: In my culture when someone is married they give the couples a white wrapper to use on their first night to wipe the blood of the virgin, and the wrapper has to be returned to the relatives. I know it’s not islamic to do so. But to protect my wife’s honor, would it be appropriate to prick my finger and put some blood on the wrapper just to protect my wife from harassment.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

14 Oct

ANSWER: You must put your foot down and totally prohibit anyone checking your bedsheet at all, this is absolutely degrading and insulting.

QUESTION: In our society, when a man gives money or gifts to his parents, it is appreciated but if a daughter gives her own money that she earned to her parents, in laws usually make an issue about this and call names to such parents on taking gifts from daughters. What is the ruling on this.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage

12 Oct

ANSWER: The in laws have no right, none whatsoever to say anything as such and the daughter in law is not AT ALL obliged to tell them or her husband what she does with her own money or how much she earns or have!

QUESTION: Can I talk with a boy before marriage to know what extent our comptability matches on phone for sometime ?

Fiqh of Marriage

12 Oct

ANSWER: This is not permissible. You’re allowed only one meeting in front of your mahram where the guy comes to meet you for the first and only time.

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