Pre-Marital Relations

I had a haram relationship with a boy i broke up with him and now my heart is attached to him, i get bad thoughts that i cannot be happy with anyone else and this is the man i ll be happy with. I get thoughts that since i did wrong therefore its better to marry him but i also know that he is not good for me? How can i overcome.

09 Aug

ANSWER: You did the right thing by repenting to Allah and breaking up with him! This doesn’t please Satan and this is why he is doing his level best to get you back to sin and to make you anger Allah more and more so that you and satan would be in the same boat. […]

I have breaked my friends promise he tells me to don’t chat with his girlfriend but I still chat with her he doesn’t no, he’s girlfriend is also my best friend but fact is I know her trough my friend only! He doesn’t no I’m talking to her! My friend left her coz he say she’s not good,Should I have to fast 3 expiation fasting for breaking my friends promise??.

Pre-Marital Relations

23 Jul

ANSWER: You need to revise whether you are a true muslim or not! Your promise is the least of your worries as having girlfriends and chatting and free mixing with them is far greater than breaking a prohibited promise like this! You reminded me with a man who asked about the ruling of aborting a […]

If a person committed zina, should he/she marry that person itself after repenting it and completely stoping the haram relationship? . Bcos both person can marry if they wish for, both are young and unmarried.

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

10 Jul

ANSWER: One must marry a person who fears Allah and is practicing. Such a person who had the tendency to fornicate can do it again unless he/she repented for real and became a true practicing Muslim.

Shiekh I am engaged and after one yr I am getting married in Sha Allah usaully I speak wd him at nght without knowing to ma parents it became habit to me and itz permissionable in Islam and I was very deeni before bcz of no sleep I couldn’t concentrate on tahajjud

Engagement, Pre-Marital Relations

14 Jun

ANSWER: You must stop talking to him immediately as this is not permissible at all in islam and he’s still a non mahram to you until you get married. Talking to him is a sin and because of this you would not find khushu in prayers and other worship. Many cases, the girl end up […]

I’ve committed Zina multiple times even by knowing how strictly it is prohibited. Now I have regrets of my past actions. I belong to a well practicing family, seeing my brothers marrying pious women. I make dua’a for my forgiveness & Alhamdulillah I’ve changed now. My question is will Allah grant me pious partner if He has forgiven me or will I be punished with impious life partner for my past Zina actions ?

Pre-Marital Relations

13 Jun

ANSWER: This is in Allah’s hands! Repent, ask Allah for forgiveness and do well and hope that Allah will grant you a good wife.

Sheikh, can I visit a woman for the purpose of marriage in a public place, without the wali as she is a revert? This will be the first meeting with her to get to know her and will be very formal. (The public place would be either a coffee shop, or some other place which is crowded), if we feel there is compatbility we can arrange her wali to be present for a more in

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

28 May

ANSWER: This is called dating! You must not have any communication with her as she is a total stranger to you. Approach her Muslim wali for her hand in marriage. If she doesn’t have one, the Muslim judge or the authorized Imam of the Islamic center becomes her Wali.

i am a widow i am 40 yrs and i Have been through big trouble now abt 2 months ago there is a man of 31 yrs have been friend and he tell me he love me but i told him not in zina and i told me to make nika but in secret without anyone would know not even my and his parents jis like this and he will not stay with me just one hour a day but my heart doesnot agree he is young and afraid of

Invalid Marriages, Pre-Marital Relations

26 Apr

ANSWER: This is zina! A marriage without the consent of your father and without witnesses is zina. It is totally prohibited to be in communication with him as he is a non mahram. All what he is interested in is one thing and you know that! You sounded to him as a desperate woman and […]

Brother you told my 17 years daughter not to marry a Shia as she was in love with him. Now she is saying that allow me to just talk to him as I won’t marry him now. He lives in Karachi n we live in Lahore, Pakistan. Same country with different cities. She used to play online game with him, she says she wants to just play the game with him online. Please guide her.

Pre-Marital Relations

11 Apr

ANSWER: This is not permissible and one of the traps of Shaytan to make her go back in entering a haram relationship! Part of her repentance is to cut off all communication with him while showing deep remorse and sincerity. No boy ever talks innocently with a girl except that he intends to win the […]

Sheikh their is this girl I used to know since I was 13 then I stopped talking to her Alhamdulilah but there is something I did sometimes ago comes back to me I feel I also should ask her forgiveness

Pre-Marital Relations

04 Apr

ANSWER: This is one of the traps of Shaytan to get you to talk to her again. You must not have any communication with her as she is non mahram to you. Repenting to Allah sincerely is sufficient.

I have been went to terrible heart break from a guy having relation from 5 years ,I am 21 now and everthing have fallen apart it breaks me every day .Salah and Duas is in track after i ended college.But my mind heart and brain keep telling me ok it happen he is gone i dont want him now .My past haunts me alot as i am fed up from myself.Parents help me to get out of this .

Pre-Marital Relations, Sins

21 Mar

ANSWER: This is something between you and Allah! If you repented from your sins, you can’t regret it and feel remorseful for breaking it! Allah will not forgive you if you are not remorseful over such sins and repenting sincerely to Him. A sign of true repentance is that you move on with your life, […]

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