Pre-Marital Relations

A guy broke my heart by making me believe he loves me. I wanted a halal relationship,told him speak with ur parents. He tried once and parents said no. he gave up on me. we were together for 2 years. His parents reason is that i am not from their tribe plus a foreigner. Will his parents be punished for rejecting me for this reason? will he be punished too for not trying enough?

28 Aug

ANSWER: A guy does not need permission from anyone to get married to a girl. He is free to marry her if her wali agrees. Do not ask about his parents sin as they are not sinful for rejecting you or about his sin for not trying harder! You are sinful for being in a […]

My sister (28 y.o) talks to some guy on the phone at night, father and brother talked to her, she doesn’t listen, they do nothing, should i no longer live with them and is it permissible to break her face?

Halal/Haram Matters, Pre-Marital Relations

16 Jun

ANSWER: You should stay there and give her dawah once in a while with good manners, knowledge and wisdom. You have no right, none whatsoever to break her face or to lay a hand on her!

If a person who’s practicing has attached himself to a girl who is not practicing and she is in haram relationship/close to marriage can such person make dua to get married to her or is it transgression in dua?

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

30 May

ANSWER: Such a person can’t be “practicing” while willing to be engaged to such an individual! This falls under the definition of dayyouth. She is not the last woman on earth!

Here in India a lot of Muslim girls are in relationship with Hindu boys, Some girls come into the relationship even after knowing everything, and some girls falls into their trap. Usually they pretend to be secular in front of muslim girls, praise Islam and muslims, be good to them, keep saying they are secular and express their fake love, and after marrying them, they show them true Hindutva.

Pre-Marital Relations, Religions

16 May

ANSWER: Mind your own business and focus on learning Islam and talking and mixing only with other muslim men and giving them dawah! Do not involve with Muslim women nor mix with them or communicate with them.

When I was younger I had a haram relationship with a non-Muslim. I have repented and married a Muslim man. However, I still miss my ex. Can I see him again in jannah?

Pre-Marital Relations, Repentance

11 May

ANSWER: Of course not! Non Muslims don’t enter paradise! You should be worried if you are going to make it to paradise yourself! Part of your repentance is to feel remorse for your sin which is obvious you don’t have!

I have been in a haram relationship for 3 years. But the problem now is he is not letting me get out of it.i have tried telling him that all this is not good, when I did he tells he will tell to my family. My family is very orthodox, he blackmails me that he will tell my family , show pics and vids of us. If that happens my mom won’t be able to take it

Pre-Marital Relations

09 May

ANSWER: This was bound to happen, as it is common in such ‘relationships’. What is the extent to which you are willing to let him blackmail you? He will soon have you physically doing his bidding, by such blackmails. You do not need to give any explanations to him whatsoever, simply cut off all communication […]

I have a girlfriend and I know Islam doesn’t allow me to contact girls, but Sheikh I love her a lot and I can breath without her, and my family now ignore to marry me I am still 18, from one side Islam doesn’t allow me, other side my parents and I love my GF a lot so what to do? I know the possible ways like prayers, adhkar but it can’t stop me

Pre-Marital Relations

19 Apr

ANSWER: If you are financially independent and can support a wife, you can marry her with her father’s consent, otherwise break off all communications with her immediately if you want Allah to forgive you. If you are ok with angering Allah and ending up in hell, you can maintain your haram relationship with her and […]

Considering the haraam relationships (basically, Girlfriend and boyfriend relationship) in which there is only chatting on WhatsApp.. I got know from you that this type of relationship is haraam.. Now my question is, does it make sense to keep such haraam relations with the intent of not hurting other’s feelings? Basically to keep such re because if he breaks up… this gonna hurt girl’s feeling ?

Pre-Marital Relations

26 Mar

ANSWER: You have a choice between two things: Break all communications in order to please Allah even if this hurts her feelings. Or Don’t hurt her feelings but end up in hell as a result! The choice is yours.

I wanna marry someone but as per my knowledge he is engaged in some prohibited things . He Don’t wanna marry me as he can’t talk to his family members and I’m thinking that I should pray for him that Allah changes him and open door of marriage for me with him. I am not in contact with him now. I really wanna marry him. Am I doing right if not then what should I do?

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

10 Mar

ANSWER: No, you are not doing the right thing at all! You are not a doormat and he is not the last man on earth! Someone who is sinful and proud of it and he doesn’t have the courage to speak to his parents and he is not man enough to marry you, who would […]

Mybrother like girl our parents wentbuther father denied, the girl says to my brother thather parents are abusive and she wantsto runaway with mybrother, he wants to saveher fromher abusive parents, my parents tried to convince him but he said he loves and can’t leave her there while the runaway idea was suggested by her now if my brother runsaway with her doingnikkah me and parents are sinful?

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

26 Feb

ANSWER: The prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam said that any marriage without the consent of her father is void! If her father is abusive as she claims, she must go to the muslim ruler or muslim judge or the authorized Imam of the Islamic center and he would look into her case and check […]

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