Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: Me and my husband have some saving for our kids in our joint account.my in-laws came to know this and forced my husband to give his shares to his parents my husband is already taking care of parents and all his siblings with luxury lifestyle when I resist to share our savings they all came and threaten me with divorce and sent me to my mom home.hsbnd says he will loose jannah if mom goes angry

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage

06 Jan

ANSWER: How the husband spends his earnings and savings is his choice. You cannot stop him from sharing his money with whom he wants. You are entitled to your earnings and you can do whatever you want with it. No one can force you to spend or save it. With such in laws, you must […]

QUESTION: In my place people book hall for marriages, and invite many people, the woman who is about to marry puts a lot of make up and wear best clothes is it permissible? Or should she be wearing abaya?

Fiqh of Marriage, Sports, Entertainment and Music, Women clothing

04 Jan

ANSWER: If such gatherings are segregated and no one would see her except other women, there is no problem in that. But if there is a possibility of a non mahram man to see her, this is totally prohibited.

QUESTION: Am about to get married in a few months. My in laws wants to have nikah in a function hall. Bt i want in a masjid. Bt they r insisting on function hall. What should I do sheikh? Is it okay to accept

Fiqh of Marriage

02 Jan

ANSWER: The walima is your responsibility according to your ability and will. Having it in a masjid is not from the sunnah and there is no special thing, as you can’t also invite people to dine in the masjid. Therefore, you should have it home or in a public place within reason and without extravagance. […]

QUESTION: My husband says I am obligated to serve his parents if he says so, because it’s my obligation to obey him. Is it true? Do I have to serve his parents and his other relatives? Please let me know in detail.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

31 Dec

ANSWER: What he’s saying is not true! You are obliged to obey him and to serve him and not serve other people! This is not slavery!

QUESTION: What is the expiation for anal sex??

Fiqh of Marriage, Sins

29 Dec

ANSWER: The sin is so major and heinous, there is no kaffarah that can accommodate it! A person who does this is cursed by Allah. https://islamqa.info/en/answers/52803/is-there-any-expiation-for-having-intercourse-with-a-woman-in-her-back-passage

QUESTION: If a father liked a guy for her daughter and her daughter too willing to marry him without having any problem and her father gave green light,then is it mandatory for her to obey her mother as she did not like the groom for her daughter….?

Fiqh of Marriage, Marriage Contract

26 Dec

ANSWER: No! What counts is her own father’s approval and her consent. Her mother’s approval doesn’t matter.

QUESTION: Before marriage I informed my father he didn’t agree with the women and for mother I wasn’t informed her that I get marriage because I was feeling she was on same page with my father as she give me the condition the same as father give to me and she didn’t accept my wife because of that I appogies for her several times but she want me to Divorce my wife so that she can forgive me

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

23 Dec

ANSWER: It’s totally prohibited for you to obey her in this regard! She has no right, none whatsoever to order you to divorce your wife unless your wife is not a decent practicing woman or she is evil and immodest.

QUESTION: Is it haram for parents to hide the fact that their son is autistic while looking for a bride for him?

Character and Morals, Fiqh of Marriage

22 Dec

ANSWER: This is lying and cheating her! How would they feel if the woman hid from them that she has herpes or HIV+?

QUESTION: My husband cheated on me with multiple people. Some men. I asked what I did wrong to cause this so that I can make corrections. He said it was not me. I want to be a good wife but I feel anger many times and I am now in suffering insomnia at night from my inability to stop thinking of it. What should I do to stop this thinking?

Fiqh of Marriage

20 Dec

ANSWER: If he has stoped cheating on you and now he is faithful, you should stop thinking about the past and move on with your life, trying to be a good wife and praying to Allah that He makes your marriage a blessed and happy one. But if he is still cheating on you and […]

QUESTION: What can you do, when they got u married to a man u don’t love but u ignored it since u can’t do anything about it and thinking that for a mean time, u may love him but u tried all means u couldn’t love him, you feel hurt when he is talking to u even his words are not hurtful, an he is very good man he loves me so much, and i don’t want to hurt him. since u got married he didn’t come. Please

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

10 Dec

ANSWER: Technically, if you are unable to love him or fulfill his rights, you can divorce him. Realistically, this is not logical! You accepted him and agreed to marry him without anyone forcing you. After all this time wasted and money lost, you simply want to divorce him and for a silly reason such as […]

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