Pre-Marital Relations

Sir its nowadays a trend in our country Bangladesh ,that many guys doing their long term affair marriage!my few relative also doing this marriage and engesement. Prob is few of my relative talk to me in such way that i hove done so wrong that i hv not done affair! As if its my inability that i couldn’t.. How to response them? I feel so humiliate!!

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Pre-Marital Relations

10 Nov

ANSWER: Why would you feel humiliated for abiding by Allah’s laws? This shows your lack of Iman. You must be proud of your religion and follow it to the core and be an inspiration for others. It is your duty to tell them that such relationships go against the Quran and Sunnah and it angers […]

I want to marry guy whom I love.we don’t talk anymore.my heart ache when I think he’ll of someone else n I want to marry him but my parents are all against him strictly as we are a rich n he is poor.had a physical relationship with in past but repented n cutoff.but still I want to marry him.what can i do to please Allah to accept my love n make way n ask Allah to make my parent ready for it

Pre-Marital Relations

18 Sep

ANSWER: You must sincerely repent to Allah while showing deep remorse for this haram relationship and doing the major sin of fornication! It doesn’t please Satan that you ended this and that is why he is doing his level best to get you back to sin and to make you anger Allah more and more […]

I m a revert n a born muslim man wnted to marry me!I had a past B4 converting which involved his very close relative!he said it was unacceptable fr him n a girl like me could never be d mother of his kids nd many mre things!he is now engaged to sme1 else1)i have constant thughts abt wht he said to me2)As his life is moving ahead!does it mean that allah is angry on me bcz i seem stuck ever since !

Pre-Marital Relations

18 Aug

ANSWER: This means that Allah has saved you from a haram relationship and also an irrational husband. Whatever you had done in the past before reverting to Islam is forgiven and you are not held accountable for it. You should never disclose your past sin to anyone, ever. Keep your hopes high and make dua […]

I was in an affair for past 2yrs after knowing this my parent denied due finacil background ,a lack of strong devotion toward deen of the partner and forced me to promise infront of kaabah ..even i denied bt still they forced me by saying that if u didnt promise we will not have a relation as father and daughter..after 2 months i break the promise and cntinued the relation..

Pre-Marital Relations

16 Aug

ANSWER: What you are doing is absolutely prohibited as premarital relationships are totally prohibited in Islam and you are sinful for continuing this. If you want Allah to pardon you, break all communications with him immediately and block him from everywhere besides repenting sincerely to Allah. Fear Allah and have some Mercy on your old […]

I had a haram relationship with a boy i broke up with him and now my heart is attached to him, i get bad thoughts that i cannot be happy with anyone else and this is the man i ll be happy with. I get thoughts that since i did wrong therefore its better to marry him but i also know that he is not good for me? How can i overcome.

Pre-Marital Relations

09 Aug

ANSWER: You did the right thing by repenting to Allah and breaking up with him! This doesn’t please Satan and this is why he is doing his level best to get you back to sin and to make you anger Allah more and more so that you and satan would be in the same boat. […]

I have breaked my friends promise he tells me to don’t chat with his girlfriend but I still chat with her he doesn’t no, he’s girlfriend is also my best friend but fact is I know her trough my friend only! He doesn’t no I’m talking to her! My friend left her coz he say she’s not good,Should I have to fast 3 expiation fasting for breaking my friends promise??.

Pre-Marital Relations

23 Jul

ANSWER: You need to revise whether you are a true muslim or not! Your promise is the least of your worries as having girlfriends and chatting and free mixing with them is far greater than breaking a prohibited promise like this! You reminded me with a man who asked about the ruling of aborting a […]

If a person committed zina, should he/she marry that person itself after repenting it and completely stoping the haram relationship? . Bcos both person can marry if they wish for, both are young and unmarried.

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

10 Jul

ANSWER: One must marry a person who fears Allah and is practicing. Such a person who had the tendency to fornicate can do it again unless he/she repented for real and became a true practicing Muslim.

Shiekh I am engaged and after one yr I am getting married in Sha Allah usaully I speak wd him at nght without knowing to ma parents it became habit to me and itz permissionable in Islam and I was very deeni before bcz of no sleep I couldn’t concentrate on tahajjud

Engagement, Pre-Marital Relations

14 Jun

ANSWER: You must stop talking to him immediately as this is not permissible at all in islam and he’s still a non mahram to you until you get married. Talking to him is a sin and because of this you would not find khushu in prayers and other worship. Many cases, the girl end up […]

I’ve committed Zina multiple times even by knowing how strictly it is prohibited. Now I have regrets of my past actions. I belong to a well practicing family, seeing my brothers marrying pious women. I make dua’a for my forgiveness & Alhamdulillah I’ve changed now. My question is will Allah grant me pious partner if He has forgiven me or will I be punished with impious life partner for my past Zina actions ?

Pre-Marital Relations

13 Jun

ANSWER: This is in Allah’s hands! Repent, ask Allah for forgiveness and do well and hope that Allah will grant you a good wife.

Sheikh, can I visit a woman for the purpose of marriage in a public place, without the wali as she is a revert? This will be the first meeting with her to get to know her and will be very formal. (The public place would be either a coffee shop, or some other place which is crowded), if we feel there is compatbility we can arrange her wali to be present for a more in

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

28 May

ANSWER: This is called dating! You must not have any communication with her as she is a total stranger to you. Approach her Muslim wali for her hand in marriage. If she doesn’t have one, the Muslim judge or the authorized Imam of the Islamic center becomes her Wali.

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