Engagement

Shiekh I am engaged and after one yr I am getting married in Sha Allah usaully I speak wd him at nght without knowing to ma parents it became habit to me and itz permissionable in Islam and I was very deeni before bcz of no sleep I couldn’t concentrate on tahajjud

Engagement, Pre-Marital Relations

14 Jun

ANSWER: You must stop talking to him immediately as this is not permissible at all in islam and he’s still a non mahram to you until you get married. Talking to him is a sin and because of this you would not find khushu in prayers and other worship. Many cases, the girl end up […]

Ya sheikh regarding the answer you gave about speaking to fiancé, would it be permissible for the couple to meet if a Marham will be around. And if not does it mean they cant even talk on the phone, whatsapp for example?

Engagement

25 Nov

ANSWER: The only exception for such a meeting is when a man proposes to a woman and he is given one meeting to interview her and for her to interview him in the presence of her mahram. This is done so that they can look at one another while speaking and asking about what they […]

Sheikh, can a girl talk and chat to his fiancé and meet him or go out?

Engagement

15 Nov

ANSWER: No, this is not permissible.

Please what is the Islamic ruling on courtship? The lady insist on not talking to the man as she has no intention of marrying him,and he insists she should give him chance to see if he can win her heart…is that allowed?

Engagement, Pre-Marital Relations

11 Nov

ANSWER: There’s no concept of courtship in Islam, none whatsoever! Dating is haram and the man can only see and talk to a girl in the first meeting after he proposes to her father and he agrees, when he goes to see her for marrying, in the presence of her wali, that is it.

I wanted to ask if a girl is engaged (no nikah just a promise that they will get married in front of both familiesa) Is she allowed to talk on the phone with her husband to be?

Engagement

18 Apr

ANSWER: No, this is not permissible. He can talk to you only during the first meeting when he comes to see you in the presence of your father (wali).

My parents have seen me proposal so from boys side they wanted to do an engagement funtion.so having engagement is halal or haram? If we do an engagement funtion will i earn the curse of Allah?

Engagement

12 Mar

ANSWER: No problem in this as long as there’s nothing haram involved, like exchanging rings, music, free mixing between non mahrams etc. You and this man are still strangers and non mahram until you get the marriage contract done.

Sheikh,yesterday I asked my mom how to know a girl before marriage(i.e the way she talks or responds, her attitude etc.)she told me that after engagement we go out together,talk and she called it courtship, she said if the girl finds something wrong in the boy or the boy finds something wrong in the girl, the wedding can be cancelled before it is performed. Is this allowed in Islam

Engagement

17 Feb

ANSWER: This is absolutely prohibited in Islam. Courtship is not part of Islam, engagement does not make her halal for you to hang out with as she’s still your non mahram untill the marriage.

A mahram has to be present when the girl and the boy are talking before their marriage but is it important that the mahram of the girl listens to their conversation?

Engagement

01 Feb

ANSWER: Of course! A girl and boy must not have any communication with each other other than the initial interview conducted by the girl’s father (wali) as there are no strings attached and they are still non-mahrams to one another!