Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

QUESTION: When my parents come to visit me and my children my wife misbehaves with them and fights with me afterwards saying that my parents have no right to come in my house. My parents live in their own house normally. I know that my wife has the right to a separate house in Islam but can she refuse to allow my parents to come to my house for a visit also?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

26 Jan

ANSWER: She has no right to stop them from visiting you in your house as this is your house! She can object to them living there but not to visiting you!

QUESTION: Me and my husband have some saving for our kids in our joint account.my in-laws came to know this and forced my husband to give his shares to his parents my husband is already taking care of parents and all his siblings with luxury lifestyle when I resist to share our savings they all came and threaten me with divorce and sent me to my mom home.hsbnd says he will loose jannah if mom goes angry

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage

06 Jan

ANSWER: How the husband spends his earnings and savings is his choice. You cannot stop him from sharing his money with whom he wants. You are entitled to your earnings and you can do whatever you want with it. No one can force you to spend or save it. With such in laws, you must […]

QUESTION: My husband says I am obligated to serve his parents if he says so, because it’s my obligation to obey him. Is it true? Do I have to serve his parents and his other relatives? Please let me know in detail.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

31 Dec

ANSWER: What he’s saying is not true! You are obliged to obey him and to serve him and not serve other people! This is not slavery!

QUESTION: A bro was saying, “In Islam, women are not obliged to serve her father-in-law. With the same token, father-in-law can take rent of the house from his own daughter-in-law if she lives in his house”. Is this correct sheikh?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

15 Dec

ANSWER: If she doesn’t have a husband, this is true and he can ask her for rent or she must go and live somewhere else. But if she is living with her husband, he has no business talking to her and he can ask his own son for rent as this is his obligation and […]

QUESTION: I want to live in a separate house but my husband does not agree. i feel very uncomfortable with his family.my mother in law fights for my gold ornaments Which was brought my husband. I said my husband to keep me in a separate house but he was like.. no I will not keep you in a separate house until my mom is alive. So Sheik tell me what to do? about my husband condition.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Kind Treatment of Spouses

06 Dec

ANSWER: You have all the right in Islam to ask your husband for a separate accommodation. Your in laws have no say or right in this. He must fear Allah and give you your rights. However, you must be smart in dealing with this sensitive issue. Do not nag your husband about this, rather be […]

QUESTION: I want to know why women is tested like this after marriage to keep widow mother n single sister n bear them all the time… what about my wish to live like a nuclear family with my kids and husband and have privacy of my personal space… since they are depend on husband i cant say anything but is it test with all their involvement n intereference amd justify them for every act n will i b compens

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

14 Oct

ANSWER: Everyone in life is given a test on this earth. Even men are tested to provide their widowed mother, unmarried sisters and his own wife and children Men also think that women have got it made where they sit in their homes and don’t have to worry about financing a family or be responsible […]

QUESTION: In our society, when a man gives money or gifts to his parents, it is appreciated but if a daughter gives her own money that she earned to her parents, in laws usually make an issue about this and call names to such parents on taking gifts from daughters. What is the ruling on this.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage

12 Oct

ANSWER: The in laws have no right, none whatsoever to say anything as such and the daughter in law is not AT ALL obliged to tell them or her husband what she does with her own money or how much she earns or have!

QUESTION: What should be the general behaviour of a husband towards his relatives&siblings who openly hate his wife, insult her and want him to divorce her? My husband remains quite on spot when i am insulted and later confronts them in my absence.This hurts me.Also, he will be angry for a moment but after a few days will be laughing with them like nothing happened.So, they keep repeating it.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

18 Sep

ANSWER: She shouldn’t be free mixing with men who are non mahram. If she is not living with them in a joint family system, she can demand from her husband a separate home as this is her right in Islam. If she is already living separately, she is not obliged to ever meet them. This […]

Is it compulsory for women to serve in laws. Make it clear plz .also i have asked my husbamd so many times to provide me sperate accommodation but he just ignore me.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

23 Jun

ANSWER: She is not obliged at all to serve her in laws. Her duty is towards her husband and children. She has all the right in islam to ask her husband for a separate accommodation. Your in laws have no say or right in this. He must fear Allah and give you your rights. However, you […]

Am I answerable to my brother in laws for not staying in my father in laws house with them and rather staying in husbands rented house or at my mother’s house in vacations?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Kind Treatment of Spouses

16 Jun

ANSWER: You are not answerable to your brother in law nor your parents in law, in fact you must not be communicating with him at all as he is a non mahram to you.

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