Pre-Marital Relations

I met a man who’s known as schooler but he 1st asks our family wealth indirectly ask my salary, he talk too much on everythings he sees & recently he told he paid 20millions for some1 Dept wic I found was nt true,he divorce his wife and he likes proud telling irrelevant stories can a such man recommend as man to marry? I wnt to get marriege bcx am old 32yrs please reply me shiek

14 Feb

ANSWER: It is not permissible for you to communicate with him in the first place as pre-marital relationships are prohibited in Islam. If he was really practicing, he would have approached your father for your hand in marriage rather than talk to you. Marrying him is not recommended. They say: you fool me once, shame […]

Sheikh I lost my boyfriend I knew it was good but why I cried what can I do to repair my heart he was not bad and he also Muslim he did not do anything wrong to me but because of distance is problem for us to marry now we lost each other and I feel hurt for it despite of it is good to apart but why I am hurt what should I do Shiekh

Pre-Marital Relations

05 Jan

ANSWER: This is Satan messing with your mind! Pre-marital relationships are totally prohibited in Islam and you are sinful for having anything to do with him in the first place as he was non-mahram to you. The fact that you are hurt could be a result of your own sins. You must repent to Allah […]

This girl i know, her mother is forcing her to marry someone. but the girl loves and wants to marry someone else. what should the girl do?

Pre-Marital Relations

27 Dec

ANSWER: Pre-marital relationships are prohibited in Islam. She must cut off her relationship with this man she claims to love and repent to Allah while showing deep remorse and sincerity. If he’s a real man, he’ll approach her wali for her hand in marriage. Any marriage without the consent of her father would be considered […]

How To Give up Haram Ralation (Girlfriend Boyfriend). I Met With A Man Who Is Involved In Such A Relation. He Says That I Know It Is Haram But I Feel Comfort (Sukoon) In It. So How To Let Him Underatand?

Halal/Haram Matters, Pre-Marital Relations

27 Nov

ANSWER: This is not sukoon rather Satan is making haram feel like it to make him fall into more and more haram until there’s point of no return for him. It is an addiction to filth same as the addiction to alcohol or drugs, as those who do such intoxicants also claim to find sukoon! […]

Sheikh a boy did wrong to me he promised me he swore by the name Allah he recited kalma and said he will do nikah with me if i talk with him but he Betrayed me hurted me.. And now he is careless and he said he loves me but he’ll not do nikah with me.. Sheikh i forgave him but i want that Allah do him with same he did to me.. Will it happen?

Pre-Marital Relations

26 Nov

ANSWER: Forget about Allah punishing him or not. Worry about your own self as what you have done by having this affair is totally wrong and sinful. This kind of relationship is absolutely prohibited in islam and you’re sinful for continuing this. If you don’t want Allah’s wrath on you in this dunya and the […]

I am 24 years of age and divorced.. Alhumdulliah I want to marry again.I have an issue concerning my father as he is under influence of bad things and his family won’t help me.alhumdulliah have made the decison to marry again as I want and need to protect myself and the guy I want to marry from going further into Zina.. We both have made the decison that we want to marry..

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

11 Nov

ANSWER: What is your question? This kind of relationship is absolutely prohibited in islam and you’re sinful for continuing this. If you don’t want Allah’s wrath on you in this dunya and the hereafter and if you want Allah to pardon you, you must immediately stop all communication with him immediately and block him from […]

Is it permissible for a boy who has fell in love with a girl to tell about this to his mother or father , so that he can convince them to let him marry her or get some advice to cure the love sickness, if it is impossible to get married. I have read in some books of scholars that they have told to conceal the love and not to tell to anyone. O Shaykh please clarify this!

Pre-Marital Relations, Sins

22 Oct

ANSWER: One must conceal his sins. However, telling them that you like a girl and that you want to marry her, there is no sin in this.

When a brother has a sister who lives in her own place, who isnt practising and thinks its okay to be alone with a man despite advice from her brother and family. Should the brother be in the presence of his sister as much as he can, when the sister is alone with the man? What else should her brother do to express protective jealousy? Thanks

Pre-Marital Relations

12 Oct

ANSWER: What she is doing is haram. He is not mahram to her hence she should not communicate with him. If she is not listening to you then you should involve your parents before something extreme happens. If your parents are not willing to interfere, being with them doesn’t seem to work all the time […]

IF a boy loved a girl and used to look at her, and then repented from that. But after that he saw some dream which saddens him, and the girl lives near his house. But the boy now lowers his gaze and does not look at the girl. But his heart is burning and he cannot forget the girl. Can you give some ways to remove the love of this girl and forget her ? Please give some effective means.

Pre-Marital Relations

02 Jul

ANSWER: He should fear Allah and should remind himself that all this is not allowed in Islam and be grateful that he was guided before falling into more sins. If he is mature enough, he should talk to his parents about marrying that girl if she is a practicing Muslim. If he is unable to […]

Sir I know talking to girls for no reason is sinful and I am trying to get rid of this problem but if I talk to some girl who normally talks to me and she disrespects me in return while she could politely refuse to talk or tell she is not interested for whatever reason, isn’t she also sinful for rebuking and disrespecting with harsh words

Pre-Marital Relations

30 Jun

ANSWER: Who cares? You are sinning by talking to her! You deserve this.

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