Pre-Marital Relations

Can I pray to Allah to shower some lover in her heart ( whom I saw ) for me I saw someone and I want to marry her so I’m praying to Allah to make me get married to her As well as can I pray to Allah that she should Start loving me in her heart for. Because I like her

03 Jun

ANSWER: I don’t know about the circumstances and whether such an attraction is halal or haram as it seems that you are looking at her while you are ordered to lower your gaze and it also seems that you are interested in chitchatting and may be dating her for a starter! This is totally prohibited.

I’m 17 years old and i’m in relationship with a girl…..now the relationship is haram how can i make this relationship halal?? And how can i advice my parents regarding her??

Pre-Marital Relations

07 May

ANSWER: The only way to make this relation halal, is to marry her. You both first need to cut all relationships and communications, repent, show remorse and ask Allan for forgiveness. If you can’t marry her, you must cut all communications and fast until you are able to marry her or anyone else.

I had a relation(talking on phone and met 2 3 times in cofe shop) with a girl i know for last 6 years and now she is convincing me for marriage and i’m ready for it.But my parents is’nt happy with that.My parents wants that i do marry with my first couzn.However the girl now is emotionaly facing major problems and she is blaming me for all.please sheikh give your suggestion

Pre-Marital Relations

11 Apr

ANSWER: You must stop all communication with her immediately and block her from everywhere as there’s no premarital relationship in Islam. This is totally prohibited. If you like a girl, you must ask her father(wali) for her hand in marriage. The girl who would meet guys at the coffee shop wouldn’t make a good wife […]

I have started practicing Islam as much as possible left many things that is prohibited I had a male frnd ALHAMDULILLAH 2 months ago I cut all the communication with him for the sake of ALLAH I DON’T TALK TO HIM at all bt I feel sad, low, miss him although I know its haram I Recite ASTGHFAR I Feel lonely plz suggest me something and make Duaa for me

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Pre-Marital Relations

10 Apr

ANSWER: This is a very critical stage you are going through! This is the fork of the road where Satan is doing his level best for you not to pass this stage! This is why he gets you depressed, sad and lonely! He reminds you of your previous sins and makes you miss them and […]

Is it haram to fall in love?

Pre-Marital Relations

08 Apr

ANSWER: Love is a feeling a person has no control over. He can however control his actions and what he says. Premarital relationships are prohibited totally in Islam. But if a person hears about another and falls in love due to his or her character without any haram communication or mixing, this is permissible as […]

I want to ask is it permissible for a Muslim lady to help non mahram guy if he at fast he wasn’t good and when he came to her life this man changed and he prays 5times a day and does alot of good by reminding me to wake up for fajr. Is it permissible to talk to him. Not discussing anything that is against the religion.

Pre-Marital Relations

05 Apr

ANSWER: This is totally prohibited! You must cut all communications with him immediately and block him from everywhere and never respond to him at all. These are the whispers of Satan to make you feel you’re doing something really good for the sake of Allah but on the contrary what you’re doing is angering Allah […]

I have been talking to a guy from online for almost few months and he likes me like the way I do. I want him to be my future husband. I want to make our relationship halal and I don’t want to lose him but he is not ready now for marriage but and he ask me to wait him for 1-2 years .what can I do

Pre-Marital Relations

09 Mar

ANSWER: What you’re doing is totally prohibited in Islam. You must cut all communications with him immediately and block him from everywhere if you don’t want to end up in Hellfire. It’s very obvious he’s playing with you and using you as a pass time and could even blackmail you and ruin your life forever. Fear […]

Shaykh, if there is a particular girl that I want to get married to but currently she’s in a haraam relationship with a friend of mine unfortunately, should I wait until she “breaks-up” with her boyfriend then try to marry her or find somebody else for marriage?

Pre-Marital Relations

19 Feb

ANSWER: Are you a disbeliever or a fornicator? Allah says: The fornicator does not marry except a [female] fornicator or polytheist, and none marries her except a fornicator or a polytheist, and that has been made unlawful to the believers.

Today i need advice for a colleague.She has only one hurdle to take deen on serious note and it is her male friend.She says something forces her inside to leave him only then she’ll be perfect with deen.She fears to give this test.She knows its haram & she wants to leave sin & also don’t.What to advice her as she already knows its haram.The boy is only hurdle btw her & ALLAAH.

Pre-Marital Relations

19 Jan

ANSWER: There is no other way! She can’t please Allah or lead an Islamic life while she is still in communication with this boy in this prohibited relationship.

I was in a haram relationship with a girl… it was just talking with each other but because we weren’t back married it was haram. I intended to marry her but I didn’t want to continue being in a haram relationship with her so I left without saying anything to her. I really miss her and don’t know what I should do… she is not Muslim and I don’t want her to end up in hell

Pre-Marital Relations

28 Dec

ANSWER: You should not start to communicate with her as this is haram in Islam. If Allah wills, He will guide her through halal means. You must not think about giving da’wah to her as these are the footsteps of Satan to get you back to sinning, dont give in.

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