Pedagogy education and upbringing

M very worried about my 5 year old son, sheikh. He loves all the girly stuff like ear rings, lipstick, frocks, pink colour and everything girly. Even if I tell him this is not how boys behave, he doesn’t understand as he is too young. I really don’t want him to grow up like this and develop these habits with his growing years. How do I stop this?

14 Nov

ANSWER: Try to have him play with other boys or ask your husband to play with him more often. Prevent him from playing with such girly stuff and keep it away from him.

Can females give azaan in a new born baby’s ear or is it only men who give???

Pedagogy education and upbringing

02 Nov

ANSWER: Females cannot give athan. Giving athan in a new born baby’s ears is not authentic.

It is believed that when a pregnant woman looks the type of people around her the same impact will be on her baby. For example the pregnant woman who is a bit dark in colour if she keeps watching a fair colored children/people ,her baby would born with a fair colour.Is it true and What is the reason behind it?

Pedagogy education and upbringing

10 Sep

ANSWER: This is baseless. There is no authentic evidence from Quran and sunnah in this regard.

I’m a convert from Europe married to a Saudi Arabian man. I am pregnant now and we had a big argue about the babies name, does it have to be the fathers name? And his grandfathers name? And then the great grandfather? And is it now allowed to have both last names ? Like the mothers name and the fathers? I would appreciate your help sooo much.. i really don’t know what to do..

Fiqh of the family, Pedagogy education and upbringing

13 Aug

ANSWER: The name must be followed by father’s name and if required grandfather’s name. The Mother’s name is not included in Islam with a person’s name at all. Some say only children born out of wedlock are called after their mothers!

Do parents have to tell their children about why they don’t let them for example play a specific game or watch a specific cartoon?

Pedagogy education and upbringing

22 Jun

ANSWER: No, they don’t HAVE to tell. However, it is best to explain it to them so that they can comply willingly instead of doing it without being convinced.

Do I need to give my last name to my baby or could it also be my first if it’s the same gender?

Pedagogy education and upbringing

18 Jun

ANSWER: Give your first name as his/her second name and your surname as his/her last name.

Can we name new born baby boy as MUHAMMAD only..?? Because some people say that we must add another name like MUHAMMAD Umer or MUHAMMAD Salman etc…

Pedagogy education and upbringing

25 May

ANSWER: What they say is absolutely baseless. No problem in keeping the name Mohammed only and one must only keep one name and not two names.

My daughter is 14 and sometimes she asks questions about sex. I found it a bit embarrassing because in her age I did not dare to ask such questions for my parents. I know that nowadays kids are different but I found it uncomfortable. do I need to ask to stop her to ask such questions or do I need to give the answers?

Pedagogy education and upbringing

14 May

ANSWER: You need to inform her in an Islamic fashion and in a polite way or she will learn it from her friends and internet!

My question is regarding a friend who has confusion on naming children,she wishes to name her child with the name of both the parents,as in she wants to include her own name along with the name of the child and husband is this permissible?

Halal/Haram Matters, Pedagogy education and upbringing

01 May

ANSWER: This is absolutely not permissible. The child must only be given his father’s name as the second name. The child is only allowed to have the name of the mother if he’s illegitimate!

Pls guide me in upbringing the children who throw tauntrams n does dangerous things like what a child does at age 3 n I fear she may fall n hurt herself n sometimes she puts tiny things into her mouth so I’m afraid to beat her or to scold but I shout at her and I fear that may Affect her psychologically.

Pedagogy education and upbringing

09 Apr

ANSWER: Shouting doesn’t work. Sometimes a little spank over dangerous things can be accepted as in the case when the child insists on putting metal objects in the electricity socket. Clear the room from anything dangerous and try to give them love and in Sha Allah He will protect them.

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