Character and Morals

It is said that we should have a high voice and no need to act to be polite when dealing with non mahram but our Prophet saw said that we should be nice to everyone even to our enemies too. Then how should we deal with opposite gender?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Women clothing

18 Nov

ANSWER: Allah said in the Quran be not soft in speech, lest he in whose heart is a disease (of hypocrisy, or evil desire for adultery) should be moved with desire, but speak in an honourable manner.

Sir Allah says he wnt forgive if we have hurted or wronged others unless that person forgive, so if that person died, or away frm us or not willing to forgive then? And islam erases all sins, a convert also wrongs other and enters islam, his sins are wiped then why not a muslims if he repents to Allah coz lord has said he forgive all in zumar. I loose hope when i read that Allah will not forgive.

Backbiting, Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

17 Nov

ANSWER: If you sincerely repent to Allah while showing deep remorse, Allah will forgive you in sha Allah.

Sir its nowadays a trend in our country Bangladesh ,that many guys doing their long term affair marriage!my few relative also doing this marriage and engesement. Prob is few of my relative talk to me in such way that i hove done so wrong that i hv not done affair! As if its my inability that i couldn’t.. How to response them? I feel so humiliate!!

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Pre-Marital Relations

10 Nov

ANSWER: Why would you feel humiliated for abiding by Allah’s laws? This shows your lack of Iman. You must be proud of your religion and follow it to the core and be an inspiration for others. It is your duty to tell them that such relationships go against the Quran and Sunnah and it angers […]

Is a promise made by a man just saying ‘ i will bring u this or that’ or is a promise made when he/she adds ‘ i promise to bring you this or that or wallahi i will bring you this or that’? Basically is a promise made without using the word promise or wallahi, as one has to give expiation for breaking that.

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Oaths

06 Nov

ANSWER: If one promises another person to do something, it is an issue of dispute whether he is sinful for not fulfilling his promise or not. The most authentic opinion is that he is not sinful if he intended to fulfill and couldn’t! But if he intended from the beginning to break it, he is […]

If we make our pp mocking macron(shoes on his face/head of a dog,snake)will it be against teaching of islam?or will it be better?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Religions

01 Nov

ANSWER: This is not according to the Islamic teachings.

Shaikh i am 18 years old and a few months ago i have started to follow my deen sincerely. But my old friends are still engaged in haram things.So whenever i see them sharing filthy things on social media or using slangs,a feeling of hatred emerges in my mind about them.But i know i have no rights to judge people.Only Allah has that right.So what sould i do when such feelings comes?

Character and Morals, Knowledge & Propagation

30 Oct

ANSWER: You must hate their filthy actions but not hate them as Individuals. Advise them diplomatically with good manners, knowledge and wisdom. If you fear that you will be influenced by them, keep your distance from them, acquire authentic knowledge that enables you to give them dawah properly and surround yourself with righteous practicing muslims […]

Is it really haram to hold hands in public for spouses? Waht about just holding hands and nothing more? What if it’s in the culture of ours to do so

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of Marriage

22 Oct

ANSWER: This is inappropriate as it would affect others with illnesses in their hearts! Those who hold hands in public, what is their intention of doing so? If they want to display their affections, they have the whole day and night when they are alone in their homes to do so! Insisting on doing it […]

My friend (who is married) & I share the same interest/hobby. We’d spend time together & text evryday.When I found out that man & woman can’t have close friendship & shouldn’t have physical contact, I feel guilty to my friend’s partner. As I’m trying to cut off interaction & change for the better, Ive fear of if I’m sinning against the friend’s partner. Am I guilty to the partner?How do I apologise

Character and Morals, Halal/Haram Matters

20 Oct

ANSWER: It is totally prohibited to be friends with opposite gender who are non mahram to you. Feeling guilty because of his wife is the least of your concern because what you are doing is displeasing Allah and His punishment should be what that should stop you from communicating with this guy! Block him from […]

I see people committing SHIRK i dont tell them is it that i also committed shirk if i dont tell them. Is it compulsory in islam to advice or tell others. People commit many sins infornt of me do i need to advice or tell each one of them everytime.

Character and Morals, Sins

08 Oct

ANSWER: As long as they are doing it in front of you, you must advise them or you will be held accountable on the day of judgement for not telling them! They will blame you for not advising them.

If someone tells me a matter and ask me to keep it confidential from a particular person. If that particular person finds that I know the issue and enquires me very strongly. Should I accept I know or refuse? If I refuse isn’t that be lying or if I accept, I would have broken the trust. What shall I do then?

Character and Morals

18 Sep

ANSWER: You must use ambiguity or totally dodge the question. It’s not permissible to lie nor is it permissible to reveal the secret as it’s an amanah with you.

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