Character and Morals

QUESTION: I’m a Practicing Muslim but i still fall into Zina every now and then. Unable to find a spouse. Please give me a solution to keep hormones happy. Sheikh, this is a serious issue! I don’t want to die in that state.

Character and Morals, Sins

03 Jul

ANSWER: One cannot claim to be a practicing Muslim and then fall into a major sin such as zina! You must change your surroundings and surround yourself with practicing Muslims who would check up on you often, also get married asap.

QUESTION: Sheikh I read in Islamqa that it’s permissible to isolate oneself for the one who fears for his religion. Can i isolate myself away for the rest of my life without getting married. Would that be permissible?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

22 Jun

ANSWER: This is not from the sunnah! What you want to do is not what the prophet salla allahu alaihi wa sallam had ordered us to do. This is from satan to isolate you from people and increase your drift away from Islam and proper knowledge.

QUESTION: Does the story of Barsisa(the piest monkfrom banu israel) exists or its just a fiction? if it exists then whats the most authentic or close to authentic reference?

Character and Morals, Other

13 Jun

ANSWER: This story is mentioned in the books of tafseer but it is not from the authentic sunnah. It is from the stories of the people of the book which we are told not to believe and not to falsify.

QUESTION: I am 21 years old man studying in university. I fell in love with a girl and started a relationship. It’s been 6 months. I’m ready to marry her as her family accepts me. But since I have done haram relationship with her, should I breakup and repent or should I continue my approach of marrying her?

Character and Morals, Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

11 Jun

ANSWER: You must stop all communication and contact with her immediately and sincerely repent to Allah while showing deep remorse for this Haram relationship and after that you can approach her father and proceed with the marriage if you think that she would be a good Muslim wife and a good mother for your children. […]

QUESTION: Can I make tasks checklist like reciting Mulk daily, avoiding masturbation, pornography etc? I tick each day if I complete them. If failed I should do push-up or etc as consequence. The checklist helped me, and I always complete all daily. Which is why I want to continue it. Without it I sometimes feel not doing some of them

Character and Morals, Sins

11 Jun

ANSWER: It is not permissible to expose yourself like this by writing it down where anyone can see it and expose you for it.

QUESTION: I was cheating my husband by talking and being with other mens , now I’m regretting very badly, also I’ve repented and never do it , my question is do I need to tell this with my husband? Am I sinful if I hide this from him ? Because I was not loyal to him

Character and Morals, Fiqh of Marriage

08 Jun

ANSWER: It’s totally prohibited to tell him or anyone anything about your sins otherwise Allah will not forgive you! Simply repent to Allah sincerely while showing deep remorse and never go near such things that would tempt you to restart such sins

QUESTION: I have some idols in the house like teddy bear or some statue must i break it and destroy them or i can pressure my mother to take it out of house and give it to her parents

Character and Morals, Halal/Haram Matters

07 Jun

ANSWER: If such things belong to you, you need to dispose off them without getting back to your mother. But if it belongs to your mother or someone else, you have no control over that and must not act without seeking permission Giving it to someone else would not fix the problem except when these […]

QUESTION: I live in a kufr country and I took a loan with interest, I transferred it to a person who then blocked me, I didn’t even spend it on anything and I regretted having done all that. When I delayed paying the loan they called me and sent me gmails but currently they don’t call me or send me messages. Should I still pay that loan?

Character and Morals, Loans, Riba

06 Jun

ANSWER: Of course you must return it as its a debt and a major sin if you don’t return it. The Prophet salla allahu alaihi wa sallam said that the sins of a martyr are all erased except the debts. You must sincerely repent to Allah while showing deep remorse for this major sin of […]

QUESTION: I saw in one of your posts where you said that no person will bear the consequences of what another person does, he bears his own fate. (On another post you said that if he does something bad to a girl it’ll return back to him, happening that to his daughter or sister) So if there would be a payback, it’d be for him and not his daughter or sister?

Character and Morals, Sins

31 May

ANSWER: No one pays for other people’s sins. If a person sins, his daughter will not pay for such a sin. However, if his daughter is as bad as he is, she will fall in a similar sin because she is a bad person which in return break his heart as a consequence of his […]

QUESTION: She is living with her in laws in jeddah and is not able to adjust with her mother-in-law. The MIL is constantly criticizing her including body shaming as the sister in law recently gave birth and has gained a few pounds. Her husband listens to his mom and hence he’s also started to body shame her after listening to his mom.

Character and Morals, Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

31 May

ANSWER: What they are doing is sinful and prohibited and only ignorant imbeciles do such things.

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