Character and Morals

QUESTION: I fed squirrels food @park which I didn’t want to throw away, although there were signs prohibiting feeding wildlife am I sinful? Main reason was to entertain sick parent. I’m in kafir country

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Halal/Haram Matters

01 Sep

ANSWER: It is not permissible to disobey authorities in halal things. You are sinful for breaking the law and most likely you will cause others to insult Islam and Muslims for making the area dirty or for harming these animals with such food.

QUESTION: A person gets called out by other people and sometimes shamed in public because he is really fat. Some people say its good to get fat shamed because then only the person starts working on themself. Can people do this?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

31 Aug

ANSWER: This is totally prohibited and sinful

QUESTION: Can I ask intimate questions to my potential spouse for example ‘is physical touch important for you’ and if I’m allowed then where do I draw the line but if not then may ask when engaged? As it could lead to one being unhappy if one wants to touch more than the other.

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of Marriage

28 Aug

ANSWER: This is totally inappropriate and not permissible at all! Only perverts would ask such questions! The father of the girl would kick you out of his house, let alone give you his daughter!

QUESTION: Should I knock on door or say something before entering parents room even when it’s open ?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of the family

22 Aug

ANSWER: Yes. You should not enter their room without their permission.

QUESTION: My wife declare to the gov less salary for us to get gov benefits for our children. Is this permissible?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

17 Aug

ANSWER: Of course not! Prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam said one who cheats is not from among us & lying is a major sin!

QUESTION: Some brothers catch unmarried couples where the guy is mostly Hindu and girl Muslim and record their videos and posts them on social media hoping that it reaches the girls parents. I know that this is haram since it’s exposing ones sins but what are the alternatives for this?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

14 Aug

ANSWER: This is not permissible and one should keep his nose out of other’s affairs!

QUESTION: Can we see important news on news channel if it contains women?

Character and Morals, Halal/Haram Matters

08 Aug

ANSWER: You must lower your gaze and not watch women!

QUESTION: At school, I used a metallic ruler and rub it against the table very fast and then press it against my friends to give them a burning sensation on their skin. These burns would sometimes leave marks on their skin as well. I have changed since then and I learnt about 70000 who enter Jannat without accountability, was what I did cautery and have I ruined my chance of being among the 70000?

Character and Morals, Halal/Haram Matters, Sins

04 Aug

ANSWER: No, this is not cautery but it was sinful for hurting them like this.

QUESTION: Is it true that Allah may choose to punish someone by exposing their sins to others? I sinned in the past and I feel extreme guilt and shame about it everyday as I severely regret it. I’m scared everyday that people may find out about it. How can I sincerely repent so that Allah conceals my sin? If Allah forgives me inshAllah or even if He doesnt, can I be sure that noone will find out about it?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Sins

01 Aug

ANSWER: There are no guarantees as this is in Allah’s hands. As long as you have sincerely repented to Allah while showing deep remorse and you didn’t expose your own sins in front of anyone, Allah will keep them concealed in sha Allah

QUESTION: When i see someone posts something haram like music or women online, I find it very embarrassing to advise them. I have a different account which is anonymous and then message them with it on there. Sometimes they don’t see the message.Is it wajib upon me to message them again on my personal account where they will more likely see the message.

Character and Morals, Sins, Social Media

31 Jul

ANSWER: If you know such people, part of your friendship and brotherhood is to advise them and warn them before they are accountable in front of Allah

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