ANSWER:

No, this is totally bogus and you don’t have to obey him in whatever he tells you as you are not his slave! He has no right to ask you yo kneel down like this! Such oppressive husbands must be stopped before they take this as norm and would make their wives’ life a living hell! 

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/10680/rights-of-husband-and-rights-of-wife-in-islam

QUESTION: Sheikh! Is it true that I am supposed to do ANYTHING my husband ask’s me to do as long as it doesn’t go against Allah? For example one time He asked me to kneel down because I said something he found offensive to him(I said I was going to call the security on his friend who is an Artisan, who had refused to deliver or refund)

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses | June 6, 2023 3:13 pm
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