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Most women lose their virginity due to playing sports or riding bicycles etc. 

Other girls don’t break the hymen from the first few attempts.

Therefore, one must not be haste and assume things that have no basis to it. You have sisters and would have daughters in the future. 

If I am married to a woman who is not virgin but was regarded to be virgin before the marriage what should I do? Should I inform her family that she was not virgin or should I keep it a secret and continue with the marriage?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses | February 14, 2020 9:09 am
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I’m recently married yet unhappy about the marriage as she can’t satisfy me sexually.She gets tired very fast due to her obesity.I couldn’t make out her physical appearance well during my visit to her home before marriage as her obesity wasn’t obvious from external look.But because of intimacy issues between us,I’m losing interest in her.Due to this,I’m afraid of getting attracted to other girls.
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Married for 14 yrs.Husb gave nafkah only for 1st year of marriage&stop till today.Reminded him its a must to give wife nafkah but he didn’t care.He went for counselling with an ustadz but still refuses to give nafkah.I’ve been working 14 years&all my money is used to help him with kids&financial.Once in 3 months I’ll take abit from my salary to buy my necessaties.What should I do?