Psychological and Social Problems

I have been picked on school for quite some years but alhamdullillah allah has given me the patience to withstand them and not do anything irrational. I wanted to know how to react to such people if they still pick on others and also if they start pointing out some features like height and so forth.

08 May

ANSWER: You can stand up against them by showing your support to the one who is being oppressed. You must never laugh with them or become part of their sin.

My complexion Isn’t much white and have nose a bit wide. Due to this people even my own parents point out this fault and so my relatives. So my question is Is this a test of me from Allah? Bcz i read on islamqa that Allah tests with different things

Psychological and Social Problems

16 Apr

ANSWER: Yes, this is a test. You must have patience and complete reliance on Allah and you must know that beauty is just skin deep, it’s the beauty of the heart and the faith inside it that really matters and Allah has created everyone beautiful.

sheikh,my question is dat actuallyits nt a question its smthng abt me actually my mind is very weak my IQ level is very low i dnt understand anythng quickly nd i am unable to calculations quick due to lack of intelligence in me many people mock at me i feel vry bad..i am in grt aniexty sheikh help me give me some tips to improve my intelligence..

Psychological and Social Problems

20 Jun

You can improve your memory by keeping away from sin because the bad effects of sin result in a bad memory and the inability to retain knowledge. As for being intelligent or smart, this is from Allah and Allah gave each one of us certain abilities to do certain things. Kindly refer to the following […]

I have a big problem,i am 36, alone, nobody, bird in cage, never got married, i live alone and have NOTHING in my house in Holland, only a benefit of 250e a month and that’s not even enough to buy something extra only food i study last three months Islam and praying and during also problems, thing destroys my jobask, stays this all my life with SEVERE torture what i am during?

Psychological and Social Problems

19 Mar

Think positive of Allah! As long as you pray on time, recite Quran and observe your Athkar in the morning, evening, after obligatory prayers, before going to bed and when leaving your home, you will be protected and nothing can harm you. Trust Allah and have full dependence on Him and make a lot of […]

i am a student and i had to stay in another city to compete alongwith my mam,5 class mates.Mam indirectly put pressure on me to not be an extremist like trying to pray when yr sick,if u dont hurt people then Allah is happy, and be a part of something bad for someone and then slowly give then dawah like music.all my classmates are same and alienate me. how to deal with this pressure?

Psychological and Social Problems

26 Feb

When a person loves Allah more than anything else and knows the difficulties our Prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam had to endure, such pressure becomes child’s play! Do what Allah wants you to do and follow the sunnah of our Prophet and pay no heed to what they say.

Remember when you told me that I will be rewarded for being a one man ummah, yeah.. about that… Now I fear I will be punished for being one man ummah. I don’t feel much support from my _akhi_. There’s so much fitnah! When I go outside, it’s pretty much impossible to not أخطأ. People at school make me mad. The level of _fasad_ in my school is outrageous! Even when I try hard to not أخطأ, I still fall into it. Whether it’s at المدرسة, or سوبر ماركت. Doesn’t matter. The Islamic duties that are incumbent on me are seriously مؤكدا لي. Being a one man ummah is too tough. There’s so much to focus on. All I want is to have khushoo in salah. I’m happy Allah is testing me but I need khushoo. Shaykh, there’s SO much to do. And I fail at pretty much everything. I’ve been trying to get it straight the last 11 months but I failed -as usual. I don’t doubt Allah’s mercy-0 rather, I doubt my ability to be a decent Muslim. It makes me seriously. أقول فقط هذه الاشياء لك.. الغضب في نفسي.

Psychological and Social Problems

16 Nov

Such negativity is an indication of lack of trust and dependence on Allah! With such thoughts, you will never improve as you don’t need Satan to put you down. You are doing that for him pretty well! Whining and wailing is for women and not for men. Either you continue to be a man and […]

Since I have started practicing Islam, I have lost many of my friends. I still have 2,3 good friends but they are mostly busy. None of my classmates follow Islam strictly; they cheat, lie, backbite etc. So now I don’t go outside and hang out with friends and it has made me very anti social and an introvert. I have lost self-esteem. Is it a good thing or a bad thing? What should I do to gain confidence?

Psychological and Social Problems

13 Nov

You should make new friends who are committed to religion, you can start frequenting the masjid, attend lectures and meet new brothers that follow the deen and make friends with them.

What takes precedence over between saving the Izzah of a woman and saving life? If someone becomes a victim of it, what will she do? Can she commit suicide to save her izzah or does saving her life takes precedence over that?

Psychological and Social Problems

07 Oct

If a woman was about to be raped, she can’t commit suicide and must fight as much as possible. Preserving her life is more important.

I have a muslim friend who does drugs and alcohol. Should I stay with her for the sake of guiding her or abandon her because of the gravity of what she’s doing ? Should I meet her at all?

Psychological and Social Problems

23 Aug

You must not be with her at all when she is doing it or when intoxicated. If you see her to advise her when she is sober and alert, this is permissible. If this doesn’t do her any good, cut her off and leave her as she is bad news.

As’salam alikum, I love Allah (swt) more than anything else, but i don’t know from 1 year or may be less.. when ever i see Islamic things or pictures …there a sound in my heart of disrespect to it… which is not in my control…like when reading Quran,i feel like splitting on it..then i immediately recite “auzibillahplease help me i want to get rid of it… i dnt want to Allah swt to be away frm me coz of this.

Psychological and Social Problems

07 May

Wa alaikum salaam, these are the wiswas of the shaytan. Keep on seeking refuge in Allah each time these thoughts come up and remind yourself that the evil could never hurt or control you, unless you allow them to. you must immediately make ruqya on yourself. Make it on water and drink from it in […]

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